Well it was from Kent(Me) To Bedford(Her). Names kept out of this. I loved her it was a great relationship. So One day she just tells me she can't handle the distance, I understood I can't defeat that Can I? So it was Over obviously still friends. A few days later she was already flirting with people..Also People from Kent? cutting me out slowly So was she lying I don't know but it hurts. Any help is appricated.
Bless
2007-04-13 12:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she was lying. But it's best to know now that she's this type of untruthful person who will avoid being upfront with you, than before you make it a really serious relationship. Maybe she just needs time to explore and find herself. If it was meant to be, then she will realize that she misses you. And if that happens, be careful....
If not or until then, explore your own options. Get out there and date. You seem like a nice person (well, from what I can get from the love and commitment your question shows), so you shouldn't have a problem finding more Love Potentials!
2007-04-13 12:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... women kinda suck. Sorry but it's true, we suck too. To think that a long distance relationship will hold up is not really realistic. A big part of the relationship is contact (no, not just sex) but feeling special and making the other person feel special. It's hard to do from a long distance. Also!!! if she is out tramping it up already... than she obviously was not worth it to begin with. Sucks that you have to find out that way but, better now than later. Someone told me once that "you don't really get to know someone until you divorce them" ... sounds like a croc but, in my experience it has proven to be true. Good luck dude, remember what Snoop Dogg said "bit**es ain't sh*t but ho*s and tricks"
2007-04-13 19:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All failed relationships hurt since you invested time and feelings. Distance should be offset by frequent calls or text messages. However, girls can easily be won over by attentive and caring guys who are always around. Your foundation must have been not that solid. Move on, and maybe you can try looking just behind you, who knows. Good luck.
2007-04-13 20:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by September Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lament over this long distance relationship any longer. Don't you want someone with whom you can actually touch? Someone who you can caress and who can caress you? Move on withyour life and find someone who you can do this with. Believe it or not, but life is short, and to waste it on a long distance relationship is void of all the pleasures that it has to offer to you.
2007-04-13 20:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by DARMADAKO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well partially..I hate when exs do that..they say " i cant handle a relationship right now"..then you find out their with someone else like the same week! Honestly,i think she had someone else in mind and didn't want you anymore..so she cut you loose first and moved on. Its pretty sad,but you can move on hun.
2007-04-13 19:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the distance things was an excuse to me otherwise she wouldn't still be looking for a man there.
2007-04-13 19:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that she broke up with you, she could be playing around and keeping you at the same. I don't beleive in long distant relationships either, I want my man with me as much as possible.
2007-04-13 19:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥RaCheL♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think y ou need to try to move on with your life and find someone that you can see on a daily basis...spend quality time with...going to a movie or out to dinner...
She sounds like she wants someone that she can see on a daily basis also so she's moving on with her life. It hurts..don't get me wrong...but unfortunately..you need to put this relationship behind you...and move on with your life. You want to be "happy"........summer is coming.....get out with your friends to different places, you'll meet someone and will be able to put this behind you~*
GoodLuck*
2007-04-13 19:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was ready to move on, and that happens alot with long distance relationships. just let her go, i know it hurts, but you gotta move on too. she obviously already has.
2007-04-13 19:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is excactly what happened to me on st.patricks day. i live in ok and my gf lives in germany.
she danced with someone and then wanted to end our relationship so she could go with him. i loved her and wanted her back. so i emailed her how much she meant to me. she called crying, begging to have me back. i of course wanted the love of my life back.
how long have u been with her?
2007-04-13 19:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋