Im 20, my boyfriend is 29. I consider myself pretty, not WHOA. but average and I look younger for my age. My boyfriend dated girls who are 25-28, all of them look hotter/cutier than me. Does it matter that I looker younger than 20? Do guys compare their girlfriends with exs? Any advice?
2007-04-13 12:11:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you defintitely cant compare yourself to any other girl hes been with.. which i know, is easier said then done.
but the point is, hes with YOU now, so he obviously finds you as much as attractive (or more) as any other girl hes ever been interested in.
also, you cant let things from his past affect what you have with him now... that was then, this is now.
just be confident and proud with who you are and enjoy the fact that you have the boyfriend you have and love yourself without comparison..dont be so hard on yourself!!
:)
2007-04-13 12:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by sophia bush 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a start, don't start getting paranoid about whether your guy's exes were cuter or hotter or whatever than you, he's with you so he must find you attractive by his own standards, so don't worry about that.
I'm 19. Seven months ago I ended a relationship with a guy 12 years my senior - we met when I was 17 and he was 29. I am now in a relationship with a guy 9 years older than me. It doesn't matter what you look like or how old people think you are - if you're happy together then screw what other people think!
2007-04-13 12:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by Spazzcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't compare their current girlfriends with their ex's, girls do that. A guy either likes the way you do look or doesn't. It's just that simple. You don't have to worry about the past, only the future.
That being said, you seem very immature and insecure. Guys won't put up with that for long in a girlfriend. It's too much work keeping them happy and feeling secure. Better to find a woman without those hang-ups.
2007-04-13 12:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
females in general are the only ones who compare themselves with other females. Guys don't do that.
You are showing a lot of insecurity.
Most men prefer youth over beauty. I am 40 years old, and if I have a choice between a hot 30-something, or an average 20 year-old, I am going with the 20-year-old.
Be good in the sack, and you'll keep your man.
2007-04-13 12:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me your youthfulness is something that those same girls will envy you for. I think the problem may be you, and your self esteem. If in your eye they look hotter than you, then you just don't how hot you are. Looks are just one part, and it's not the most important. These girls have an age advantage, which means they have been on this earth longer. It doesn't mean that they seen, or been through more. Most importantly it doesn't mean they have the common sense you have.
2007-04-13 12:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by CENTINEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be concerned about his exes. He's with YOU now, and you are without a doubt beautiful in his eyes.
As for how old you appear, that really doesn't matter either. You may get skeptical looks from strangers, but as long as you are both emotionally on the same level you will be fine.
2007-04-13 12:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I just say that your looks compared to other gals should never be an issue with any man you date or eventually marry. Please stop worrying about that issue. Please consider only if he is a nice guy who respects you and anything that you tell him you are uncomfortable with at any time. You have years of dating ahead of you, maybe, and the men you see are only an extension of your own self-worth. Go out and be confident!
2007-04-13 12:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lizbiz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 22:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by fryback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's any kind of guy worth having who you are will be more important to him than looks. Talk to him about your concerns that it might matter that you look younger than you are (not about the ex-girlfriend thing).
2007-04-13 12:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Do guys compare their girlfriends with exs?" Yours probably does. Why are you dating a guy who's nearly a decade older than you? In fact why are you dating? You're too immature to handle it and you don't know what it's about.
2007-04-13 12:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by WhoGalt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋