My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about a year and a half. I know he loves me but I am not sure how deep that love goes. I tell him from time to time just how much I love him and usally his response is to look deep into my eyes smile and give me a long slow kiss. I know that actions speak louder than words and he does show me that he loves me but I want to hear details as to how much he loves me. Any advise to get him to share his feelings with me?
2007-04-13 12:02:58 · 3 answers · asked by memeemelissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know that actions speak louder than words, why are you asking to hear it? You are too needy, and insecure. If you don't fix these problems you will lose your man. Those are to qualities that men get tired of over time.
Men don't really share their feelings much or well, what you are asking him to do is not be a man. That isn't very nice of you, would you be happy if he asked you to be quite more often? It's not in a males nature, and that is true with him. Stop expecting people to change, that isn't going to happen. Accept him the way he is, or find someone new.
2007-04-13 12:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you've been with him that long and he's never said "I love you" I think it's fair to go straight ahead and ask him if he does.
Alternatively, if he HAS said he loves you and just prefers to express it physically, it's best to just accept that. The situation with my boyfriend is the same only reversed - he'll happily go off and tell me all the tiny little ways he loves me, but I'm just not wired that way, I prefer to express my love in the way I touch him and kiss him and look into his eyes.
If you're happy, don't worry about it. If you feel he loves you, he does - you don't need poetry!:)
2007-04-13 19:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Spazzcat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he has a vagina, he wont talk about his feelings anytime soon
2007-04-13 19:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋