what does it mean when i've been with a guy for a while now and i really like him. although at times i find myself thinking about my ex and this other guy i liked that i could have had a chance with. Is it normal to be thinking about other guys when your with someone else?
2007-04-13 11:48:42 · 8 answers · asked by drummer chic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's normal to think back to different things y ou shared with your ex boyfriend and another guy you've always fancied, could have had a chance with but obviously chose not to...try tho to focus more on what you have Now*...infront of you...The boyfriend you need to give a chance to or you'll end up losing him. It's not normal to always think of these 2 other guys...if you've been with this new guy for a while now. Perhaps you need to ask yourself, why you keep referring back to these other fellows* Be Honest with Yourself*
2007-04-13 11:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if you are a young gal who wants to date guys and not be "with someone". Why must you be with one guy? Can't you date a few people without getting too involved? And no, it is not normal to be thinking about being with another guy when you are "with" someone else. That is just unfair to your boyfriend. Think about it!
2007-04-13 11:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lizbiz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal to think of others when your with someone but, if you think of them all the time then, how happy could you be with the guy your with?
2007-04-13 11:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy then you answered your own question. leave those other guys in the past where they belong, they're an ex for a reason.
2007-04-13 11:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by dredead1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means ur not ready for a serious relationship with this other guy. its unfair for u to b with someone, and thinking about someone else. come clean, maybe he'll understand , maybe its better for u anyway
2007-04-13 11:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by living.deadchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED CLOSURE! anytime your multitasking thinking about this guy and that guy is a sure fire sign , that you did'nt give yourself a chance to heal from those prior relationships.
2007-04-13 11:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by kswift672000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're probably too young to have a boyfriend and should be dating and enjoying life, rather than getting into something so serious.
2007-04-13 11:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be normal but also it probably means that the guy your with is not the right one SORRY
2007-04-13 11:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by jsc_185 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋