after having spent 10 months in an unhealthy relationship, I think I have lost sight on who I am really ...what can I do to retrieve myself back ?
2007-04-13 11:21:04 · 5 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start reading the Bible for one thing. Someone else will come along, God doesn't want us to be alone. Also talking to a therapist will make you put things in the proper perspective. Go good to yourself my friend
2007-04-15 12:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time. I suggest not getting into another relationship right away. Spend some time on yourself. Take time to do the things that you enjoy, the things that give you confidence. If you don't have any such things, take up a hobby that interests you. Read some good books. Listen to music you like, watch movies you enjoy. Spend time on YOU.
If the relationship was very unhealthy, don't rule out the idea of seeing a therapist. It is good to have someone to talk to who is a professional and can assist you in repairing the damage that was done to you. Also, there are support groups out there for codependency and other relationship issues. Good luck to you...
2007-04-13 18:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your arms around yourself and hug Yourself. Take care of yourself.
2007-04-13 18:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go see a counsler. or just have a lot of fun with youre family.
2007-04-13 18:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by miranda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and move on.
2007-04-13 18:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by p1ay_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋