My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and 7 months and every time I ask him to do something with me like go to the movies, mall or just hang out with some of my friends he wont, he works all the time and he say its because he is so tired, he says that why he never fills like going out with me but if his friend he lives with say something about going to the bar he ant so tired any more, and I just fill like he don’t want to be seen with me and it is getting very old!
2007-04-13 11:06:16 · 14 answers · asked by janice h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flirting and playing
2007-04-13 11:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him know how you feel about it, and if he can't see that there's a problem and that you are hurting, then something's gotta give. Either this makes it or breaks it.
Be open and honest with the people you love. You'll get more out of it. Talk to him and not just to us.
Good luck!
2007-04-13 18:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by cinney_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a "him" problem, it's a "you" one. Why are you still with this loser? Why are you blaming others for your problems? Why did you make this loser your boyfriend to begin with? You have some serious problems girl, those are what you really need answers for.
As for him, dump him now, move on and don't look back.
2007-04-13 18:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe he want to have some space and he really tired and do you know every time you and him go date he need to plan to do something for you or go somewhere so you can have a good time
2007-04-13 18:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by mitsuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is boring and you need to tell him to act like the guy he was when you started dating. Bring something to the table.
2007-04-13 18:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by thirdeye67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should probably move on because he sounds like a loser
if he doesnt want to be seen with you then he doesnt deserve being your guy
2007-04-13 18:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you accepting this? If you're not happy, then tell him. Give him a chance to make it right. If he doesn't, move on.
2007-04-13 18:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt sound like he is interested in hanging out with you in public. dump him.
2007-04-13 18:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know what advice, but i can say u r not alone. mine does the same darned thing
2007-04-13 18:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by tracy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a new guy sweetie :(
2007-04-13 18:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kari Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋