My sister and she wants me to be in her wedding but I am pregnant! Her wedding is in June and I will be showing. Should I still be in her wedding? My husband says yes but I need advice from someone else.
2007-04-13 10:58:37 · 21 answers · asked by Hillary J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Of course you should be!! That is your sister. It isn't like your water is going to break during the ceremony. If you don't you'll prob. regret it later.
2007-04-13 11:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you should be in the wedding! How many times does your sister get married? Why wouldn't you want to be a part of that? Take your showing into consideration when you pick out your dress. Empire waists flow away from the body starting right below the bust so that might be the way to go.
2007-04-13 13:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be. Unless you are very close to your due date around that time, there is no reason you should not be in the wedding. When getting measured for your dress, just be sure to let the store know that you are pregnant so that you can order the dress with plenty of room to be taken in our let out. Congratulations on both being asked to be in your sister's wedding and your new baby!
2007-04-13 12:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should!!! The only reason I'd suggest possibly not is if you would be in your 9th month by then....for obvious reasons...no one wants to see the bridesmaid going into labor as she's walking down the aisle. But it doesn't sound like you'll be that far along, it sounds like you'll probably be in your 4th or 5th month, which really is probably perfect timing. You'll be feeling pretty good (the 2nd trimester's the best), you won't be getting as tired as easily, and you'll have that wonderful, pregnant glow. Seriously, pregnant women have their own beauty. There are different bridesmaids gowns for expectant mother's as well, so you'll have no problem wearing a dress. And if your husband's supportive (meaning he obviously doesn't mind spending the money on a dress you will wear only 1 time), then I say go for it!!! Have fun!
2007-04-13 12:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead? Why wouldn't you be in the wedding? She wants you there, so you should be there unless you have any objections to the marriage. So what if you are showing? Marriage and pregnancy are both beautful things and should be celebrated. You can get your bridesmaid dress made to fit your growing belly, just be sure not to order it too soon in case you have a little growth spurt. Have fun at the wedding...and congrats on the baby!
2007-04-13 11:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mia1385 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should because she is your sister and you'd be mad at yourself later for not doing it (if you guys are friends and not just sisters).
Also, look at it as the opportunity to look and feel fabulous for a day during your pregnancy. It is not often that prego woman get to or has the energy to dress up and get her hair and makeup and nails done. Find a comfortable but gorgeous dress and find comfortable but gorgeous shoes and take part in sister's big day.
Another added bonus is that down the line when you look at pictures you won't saying "dang, I looked fat" like I do when I look at most pictures, you'll be remembering the months before your baby came.
2007-04-13 11:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by St. Judy's comet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! She's your sister and wants you to be a part of her wedding party. Your pregnancy is nothing to be ashamed of. It's a miracle of new life! Show yourself proudly and enjoy your sister's wedding!!
2007-04-13 11:25:09 · answer #7 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think you should. You may regret it if you don't. My best friend just got married in September and I was 37 weeks along! I was about ready to pop, but I wouldn't have had it any other way. It was very important to the both of us and I wanted to be part of the celebration. But it's up to you. Just remember that if you do decide to, make sure you get super comfy shoes :)
2007-04-13 15:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you shouldn't be in the wedding. Who cares if you are showing! Your sister wants you in the wedding, and you should be there for her.
2007-04-13 11:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by lionsworth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better question, why are you so ashamed of your pregnancy that you don't want to be in the wedding just cause you're showing? That's very immature of you.
2007-04-13 11:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister will (hopefully) only be married once. I'm guessing that you're her older sister, and she must look up to you if she can look beyond (and respect) your condition.
I think you should still be in the wedding.
2007-04-13 11:03:52 · answer #11 · answered by : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋