2007-04-13 08:16:11 · 23 answers · asked by Khadrereil F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Till marriage.
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin. I have a boyfriend of 14 months that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-04-13 08:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if your not a virgin anymore then waiting for your wedding day is kind of usless and lets face it we cant predict our destiny if we actually even get married. so i say youll know when the time is right it must atleast be a few months into the relationship because sexual intercourse leaves a part of that person with you and if its a new relationship then u still have to see if things work out! so when u coumfortable go ahead and enjoy the ride..
2007-04-13 08:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on the situation and your age. If this will be your first time I would wait until you know for sure that you would want to give up your virginity to him. But if all your wanting is sex from that person and you each are protected against std's than I would say 24-48 hours. Which ever way you go just be cautious of who you do it with and use protection.
2007-04-13 08:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do no longer think of your wedding ceremony night would be any much less particular and exciting by fact which you sleep with him previously. in case you sense strongly approximately no longer snoozing with him until eventually then, then do no longer do it.....yet once you're open to the assumption then i think of its no longer a bad theory. regardless of each and every thing, prepare makes appropriate, and your wedding ceremony night may well be anticlimactic in case you wait the form of fantastic form of years in simple terms have intercourse it rather is over in 30 seconds. sure, there is something very particular relating to the 1st time, in spite of the undeniable fact that it will confirm no count once you do it. As you 2 nonetheless have solid emotions for another you're able to be able to make intercourse particular every time, and your marriage night can nonetheless be magnificent. :)
2016-12-29 07:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by hulbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. It totally depends on the person and what your long term plans are with that person. Put it this way: If you have no feelings for the person and don't see them playing a major role in your life then go for it. If this is someone you could possible care for/love then you don't want to do anything that could jeopardize a relationship later.
2007-04-13 08:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd wait a while, depends on how long. I dated my gf for about 4 years now, but we're still virgins.
2007-04-13 08:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i waited a month before i had sex with my first partner and he was very understanding about the whole thing, i was a virgin.
but i dont know how long if you've already slept with people, my current partner we had sex almost right away, we just couldnt wait any longer!!!!
its totally upto you though, wether you want to and if your partner doesnt respect that then hes not worth it anyway xxxxx
i hope you're both legal though xx
2007-04-13 08:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
until u actually think ur ready if its at the heat of the moment go for it then its not going to hurt anything u have to get it some where but honestly i would wait weeks or months before i did anything just get to know them better u never know they could have some kind of disease or something and not getting to know them would kinda mean ur not worried about ur self and ur just a player
2007-04-13 08:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least 15 to 20 minutes.
2007-04-13 08:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
2 minutes
2007-04-13 08:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by mexc@n b!tch 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋