i'm only 15 and already have love problems. i'm going out wit a cute guy. it turns out that his ex is not over him. they have told me that she was pregant from him it turned out that it was all a fake. my sister tells me that he is cheating on me but its impossible because i'm with him 24/7. but then again i don't noe it she's telling me the truth. my boyfriend tells me he loves me and look at him i think there is no way he is cheating on me. i need some good advise. Should i care about all the things my sister is telling me?
2007-04-13 07:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You, your sister, and your boyfriend all need to get together and talk this out. Just tell your boyfriend you're tired of hearing about all this crap and tell him that you three need to talk it out. Pay attention to both of them while they are talking to eachother.
2007-04-13 07:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by pickledgrapenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you can't tell if a guy is cheating just by looking at him.
Second you are not with him 24/7 and even if you were he could still cheat if he wants too. Being with him 24/7 only means you are more likely to find out, not that he can't. Keep this in the back of your mind, guys don't like a woman around them 24/7, if you keep this up you will drive him away.
Third your sister doesn't know. However she is a better judge of players than you are...love is blind and all that. She is just looking out for you, take her words with a grain of salt but listen all the same.
Finally...even if he didn't get his ex pregnant, he was hitting it with her without protection. Serious lack of judgment on his part and make me question his motives with you. He is either just using you for sex (or planning too), or isn't smart enough to protect you.
2007-04-13 14:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what. You got to back out of this situation. You are only a kid and need to be focusing on being a successful student. How can you be with a guy 24/7 when you are 15. That's unhealthy. What do you do for fun and for yourself. Spread your wings and enjoy your youth. You are living an old person's life. What will you be doing when you are 20. Have 2 kids with another 1 on the way, nothing going for you, a man who is cheating on you and knocking up as many women as he can. This is not pretty. Open your eyes and start living the life you deserve. Not wondering if your boyfriend is making babies with other girls.
2007-04-13 14:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if you guys are together 24/7 that means your are living together right??? but i would hope not at age 15 anyways how could you even question who to believe??? obvioulsy you are in denial but i think you should deffinately believe your sis blood is thicker than water!!! And the best advise i could give you is focus on your school and study dont worry about boys, you have so much time later in life to do that!!! you only get one chance with childhood dont rush it!!!
2007-04-13 14:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG how old is your sister?? sounds like some1 is jealous of you... if hes practically with u 24/7 then i think you should trust him a little more. but dont get too carried away he might just turn on you and all of wat your sister said might b true. keep an eye on him. but dont b a little bit too of the jealous type!!!
2007-04-13 14:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by *** M@NZ@NO *** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ask your sister why she would think that.....she may be looking out for you, or she may just be protective and not want you with HIM....ask her whats up...if she has good reasoning, then talk to your guy....
2007-04-13 14:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur sister u have to realize family is permanent mayb she sees somethin u dnt talk to her about it and let her kno how u feel bout him and wat she says but u have to stay calm or it will become a fight between the two of u so talk it out ok
good luck
2007-04-13 14:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by ashl2e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess your really turn your back on your sister?
2007-04-13 14:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by airplanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't you be in class kiddie?
2007-04-13 14:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Larry Class 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋