But the both of you wanted it bad enough do you think it could really work???Theres alot that we have to go through and even more to deal with in the future and honestly we know it never will work but we want it to so bad.
2007-04-13 04:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes, if you feel it will never work, you have to just walk away because it will only cost you too much in the long run, no matter how bad you want it. Life just doesn't always work out the way you planned it to.
2007-04-13 05:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know it will never work not matter how much you try, why do it?
but if you are willing to accept the sufferring if it doesn't work and having tried and done your very best to make it work bcoz both of you wanted it so bad....what stopping you?
and are you saying there is totally no chance of making it with if you try hard enough together??? If there is a slight chance, do you want to take the risk?? Guess you know what to do rite? Best of Luck!
2007-04-13 12:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by R T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to want something that you might never have. But it is irrational to go for something that is unattainable. You would be wasting your time and effort, not to mention missing out on other things/people that could also make you happy. If you know it isn't going to work, then cut your losses now. Why keep trying when you know that you both will only suffer in the end?
2007-04-13 12:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can something is good feel so bad is what i use to ask myself about my married in another country boyfriend. i live for the moment i feel really bad for his wife but he is a grown man an if he is okay with it then its his deal. Try thinking right now not tomorrow if you want it to work. but if it is not right then there is no use of trying to make it work. there is always someone else. maybe not right a way but eventually. Live life to the fullest and never regret your decisions.
2007-04-13 12:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by cocopuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion it can work if you both want it that bad. It takes 2 in a relationship for it to work. if it doesnt then its good knowing to both tried. that just shows how much you guys really love each other. 90% im sure it will work but remember it takes 2
2007-04-13 12:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by b-boy 128 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you dont know if it will work or not if u never tryed...beacuse thats jus dumb u cant say this wont work cuz you never tryed so youll never know if both of u want it bad enough then it will work...if u guys realli love eacother then it can go thru anything life throws at u...go for it...what do u have to loose?...an if u dont...then u lost alot...jus think about it goodluck
2007-04-13 12:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you already made your mind up.
You mention there is "more to deal with in the future" yet you end saying "We want it to (work) so bad."
So.....Go ahead and try your best.
2007-04-13 12:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have it made up in your mind that it is NOT gonna work no matter what,then it won't!!!
If you both TRULY want it to work and know it would work if you tried....then it WILL!!!
It's all about attitudes and what you BELIEVE!!!
Good Luck :)
2007-04-13 12:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing first..how do you know it wouldn't work? however, if that's the case than you can't do anything about it.. face the fact that it's not gonna work.. but i just don't understand why it couldn't work? anything is possible.. even impossible has the word i'm possible!
2007-04-13 12:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by loveperhaps10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u know it won't work u don't know what 2morrow brings or next week or next year even. u might think it won't work but if want it bad i think u could make it work
2007-04-13 12:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋