I was with my ex off and on for 10 years. One day, even thou I loved him, I decided that enough was enough. He came in and out of my life at will. We drive each other crazy. We fought all the time! We went our separate ways and he married the woman he got pregnant. I am now in love with someone else and will not cheat on him despite my ex's advances. I do miss him at times but I don't want the drama. He would do everything possible to let my bf know that something is up. I would like to be friends, but that's not happening. I've always suspect him of being bi and recently it was confirmed. So if he's unfaithful, sleeping with "people" why is he so mad I won't sleep with him! Why can't we just be friends?
2007-04-13 04:45:57 · 10 answers · asked by Cutegirlnameliola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ignore him. he's the one who's got the problem not you. the fact that he's unfaithful says a lot about his character. so stop thinking about why he's mad at you and just reduce him to insignificance. he's not worth your time.
2007-04-13 04:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Toffee Nut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not "bi" he is gay (not that there is anything wrong with that). A gay man can be with women, but that doesn't make him any less gay.
You are foolish to even want to be friends with your ex, the fact that you do means that you are not good girlfriend material. Your boyfriend should dump you quick before you break his heart. Your ex just wants to be with you to muck up your head and relationship. Nothing more than that, it isn't about love or even desire just being mean. You shouldn't have anything to do with him, no calls, text messages, meetings...anything if you really do love your boyfriend like you claim. I highly doubt you would be happy with your boyfriend if the shoe was on the other foot.
2007-04-13 04:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about his feelings towards you?
He's an "EX", according to you. The more energy you give to him (through contact or simply wondering), the less energy you have for yourself or the new relationship.
Give him up, shut the door, turn it off or drop your current relationship. Even though you are not currently sleeping with the EX, you are thinking about him and if I was your current BF, I'd feel cheated.
Why oh why oh why can't people (a) get clear on what/who they want and (b) stick to it...
Sigh...
2007-04-13 04:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Randy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be friends with this guy?! Stupid!!! Do not talk to him and get him out of your life! Move on before your new BF has had enuf and kicks you to the curb! 10 years is long enough! Do NOT see your ex in any way again! Do not accept his phone calls or return his messages. It's over - let it die.
Good luck! :)
2007-04-13 04:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's selfish...and because you aren't giving him what he wants, that is why he gets mad. You are not on this earth to make him happy. He could care less whether you are happy. He only cares about making himself happy, and if you aren't going to devote yourself to his happiness (at the expense of your own happiness) then of course he will get mad. BTW...why do you care what he thinks or whether he is mad? He is your ex.
2007-04-13 04:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he basically wants it all and is cross because he can’t haev it all. Stick to your guns and don’t give in, he will run of to your current boyfriend and spill the beans. It might be a case of if he can’t have you then no-one else should..
2007-04-13 04:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is a jealous fag.
Tell your current boyfriend, "Gays could be such drama queens."
2007-04-13 04:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by trisha_alexandria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a selfish prick who is not worth a second thought.
2007-04-13 04:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore the entire situation. move forward not backwards.
2007-04-15 22:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by ERICA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is "You are born to forgive"and he"is born to use it against you"
2007-04-13 04:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋