Did I do the wrong thing?
Just now there was this boy who was disturbing this girl I like. I have told her my feelings last year but she said she just wanna be friends. Since then we are friends, and things are good between us.
He pulled her hairpin out of her hair and took it away. She attempted to take it a few times but he won't give.
I was there. I asked her what was happening, but she was busy 'getting' the hairpin and she didn't reply. I wanted to punch him in the face and grab the hairpin from him. But, I did not do it because I am scared of people's opinions.
Did I do a wrong thing? What should I say to her (if any) and what should I do next time?
There is this another boy who is after her, and when he saw that, he immediately walked away. He did not even stop to take a good look.
2007-04-13 01:20:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously yes look at your sentence bout the other boy its practically the same as what your doing to her. To see someone BEING BULLIED LIKE THAT ISN'T SOMETHING MAJORITY ENJOY but for you to be asking and posting for solution at least you do have conscience so the next time turn it into something strong cos after all youre the boy and she is only a gal.
2007-04-13 01:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by sheadrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, personally, I think the guy who took her hairpin is kind of..flirting with her...well if you're like in high school or older...because most guys dont take girls hairpins just to be mean--unless theyre in middle school maybe---it usually just means they like the girl...like you know how ppl say when boys pull on lil girls hair they like the girl..sth like that hehe..
I think you did the right thing, because if you did get it from the guy, she might think youre kind of being too protective of her and not letting her stand up for herself...and also if the guy wasnt flirting (the one who took her hair thing) and was just doing it to be mean (i kinda doubt i though) if you helped her, he might be angry and do worse things,,
2007-04-13 01:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by abc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You offered to help. She did not want your help. You did the right thing. Who knows? Maybe she likes the guy and this is how they play with each other.
Never worry about other people's opinions. They are no better than you. Only concern yourself with the opinions of people you respect.
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2007-04-13 01:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proper he's truthfully mushy! So, use it against him. not in a propose way, only play together with his interest. He should not be dishing it out if he cant take it! while he says "get a sparkling jacket", say "Oh ok thank you vogue police.. or, And what, get one on the goodwill such as you probably did?" And while he says "you are able to shave" say like, "Whats the priority you won't be able to develop any facial hair little boy" or, "Are you my female buddy". basically, blow off his feedback, and turn them around so as that they make him seem as though an fool. women like adult adult males who're constructive and humorous. once you talk back to dude, say humorous issues, dont over think of what you're saying, shop it short, and be constructive! tutor the chick it doesnt hardship you. Win her over. Make him sense like he's dumb. Smile and snort...
2016-10-22 01:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow guys overanalyse too! kool!
2007-04-13 01:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Julie Mokhtar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sounds like your still pretty young.
2007-04-13 01:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Just some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just wait.
2007-04-13 01:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Dustin Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋