ive had bad relationships in the past and its hard for me to believe that he really loves me (seein eachother for 4 months) he is a really nice guy and i really like him but im afraid of getting hurt. he said he would sell one of his automobiles (that he talks about fixing up all the time) he would do anything. does this mean he values his auto more than the relationship. cause he knows i wouldnt ever make him sell anything? why would he bring that up??
2007-04-13 00:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by carla p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE REALLY LIKES YOU!!! and looks like the last thing he wants to do is hurt you! i dont think you should run away from this relationship! you should just tell him that your nervouse about getting hurt.. and im sure hes going to make it clear that he wouldnt do that to you. he says he wud sell his car becuz he values YOU MORE THEN THAT!! and thats a big thing! i wudnt let this one go if i were you... i think ull regret it!
2007-04-13 00:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have had bad relationships in the past, doesn't mean you can't get back in the saddle and start again. ( so to speak ). We have all had bad relationships at one time in our lives, but you don't have to give up. As for him crying, he sounds to immature to me, he needs to get a back bone. Nothing turns me off more, than to see a wimpy man, lol. Why would you think he values his automobile more than a relationship? Sounds like he cares enough for you to do that. Did he say why he would sell it? He sounds like a good guy if he would quit the crying.
2007-04-13 00:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is definitely wrong with that relationship. Today he is crying for you, tomorrow he will be trying to control you in other ways. Find yourelf someone else, someone new, get involved and move on. In the meantime you can break off all contact, don't answer his calls, don't encourage him. If he asks why then just say it didn't work before and I think we both should move on. When people cry it's like they are afraid of abandonment which is a problem they have from childhood and they should see a psychologist to find out how to get rid of that feeling, they should work on themselves "before" they should even try to work on any relationship. I would not suggest you telling him that, maybe someone else will. If you do he might take his anger out on you then...cause he's just emotional, ya know?
2007-04-13 00:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to get past the feeling of "getting hurt"...Relationships are hard work...and you need to be committed to it, not thinking this isn't going to work out i'm going to get hurt...No one can predict how a relationship will work out....Your b/friend doesn't want to lose you either...and no it doesn't mean his auto is valued More than your relationship...but he does love his auto and was willing to sell it , he said he'd do anything....he wants to show you he honestly doesn't want you two to break up.
Don't play with his heart*~.........You need to sit down with him and talk to him about whatever it is that makes you feel he doesn't love you and the real reason as to why you want to break up is cuz ur scared of getting hurt.
Perhaps you're not ready for a b/friend......and should look deep within your heart and soul..search for what it is you truely want....and then go for it.
Goodluck
2007-04-13 00:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 06:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is clutching at straws... and i'm not sure why you are breaking up with him? fear?
Him offering to sell something he values to keep you shows how much you mean to him... But you need to start trusting, have a little faith and let go of the past, we've all had our share of heartbreak. But you get over it, not completely but we learn from our mistakes....
2007-04-13 00:41:45 · answer #6 · answered by Harmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to break him up, even he'll cry an ocean because of that. that will be better than continuing to fool yourselves and pretend you still love each other though the truth is he pays more attention to his automobile. maybe talk about it well before making a decision.
2007-04-13 00:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's over and when he starts to cry slap him across the face and tell him to HARDEN THE **** UP!!!
don't know about the car's sounds like your getting of the point of breaking up with him
2007-04-13 00:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by woot!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this guy. he's unstable and thinks that you'll stay around if he has a little cash to buy your attentions with. he may be nice but he is also ungrounded.
2007-04-13 00:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him quickly he is an emotional cripple
2007-04-13 00:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋