me and my best mate were best mates for about 7 years now and she liked me ex (witch is her bf now) they have been seein each other for about 8/9 month or so. me and her bf have a lot of history so she started to slag me off about it i wan't happy when i found out so we wasn't mates for ages. she stopped her bf from seein me (as mates) but then her bf kissed me and said he loves me and now me and me best mate hates me. she's turned her bf to hate me too.
even tho he kissed me 1st she hates me but she took him back?
what would u do in my case plz help thanks! (i've tryed talkin to them it DIDN'T WORK)
2007-04-12 22:29:44 · 16 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give it up as a bad job love,your'e obviously worth more...
2007-04-15 12:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by picklechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well firstly this ex of yours sounds like he has been enjoying playing you and your friend off against one another and that is bang out of order. Friends are number one and always should be but unfortunately its not as easy as that sometimes is it.
My best friend of 20+ years is now married to my ex and although there has been occassions when she has felt a little threatned it as always been sorted and always worked well. I'm obviously committed to my best friend but have also been know to speak with him which has resulted int hem not breaking up.
Things sound like they have gone a little too far and I think all you can do right now is just give it time. Personally I think this fella needs to be shown the door by both of you as a friend or bf and I think that if your friend is your true friend that you will work things out.
Just so you know years ago there was an inccident between my best friend and I and we didn't talk for about a year, time is agreat thing and we could share some right stories with you!!
Good luck darling and dont beat yourself up over this, you have done nothing wrong, guys can be very manipulative sometimes!!
2007-04-12 22:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they are going to be like that then they are obviously not real friends, it maybe hard but the best thing to do is give them time and maybe they will calm down and if you have tried everything and they don't want to know then you are better off without them. it may sound harsh and be hard for you but you need to try and forget about it and move on. if they are true friends then they will come back to you in their own time. xx :)
2007-04-12 22:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweety like i've told you before and please listen this time your better off with out both of them ! i know it's difficult but you really do need to just forget about them both and move forward with life ! i'm 100 percent sure there are cuter guys out there and by the sounds of things there are deffinately better ppl to be mates with ! please just give up on the pair of them it's a total lost cause and move on stop letting them get to you thats exactlly what they want and move on you are still young and got a lot of living to do ! so stop wasting valuble fun time by worrying about that pair :)
2007-04-12 23:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Denise D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly stay away from them both all they seem to be doing is making you feel unhappy, move on and find new friends sorry :(
2007-04-14 20:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the bf is enjoying playing you both to be honest. you need to stay well away and jus enjoy your life and not worry about their problems. she should wise up to the fact that her bf is a cheat.
2007-04-12 22:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give up on both of them. Neither of them is worth it if they behave like that to you. Find new friends.
2007-04-12 22:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by coffee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give up on both of them, they aint worth the hassle or bother, you sound like a good girl, move on mate x
2007-04-12 22:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need a new friend. Friends shouldn't date their friends ex. She's not showing she cares about her friendship with you so don't waste anymore time on it
2007-04-12 22:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Mekana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pull away and leave them to it! Easier said than done! He is confuesed and she is being protective!
Let them sort it out and they will come to you when they are ready!
2007-04-12 22:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by stockytommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋