I know I already posted this, but I think I need to rephrase. If men like porn because there is no emotional attatchment to it (which I already understand), why can you go a week without sex with your gf/wife, but can't go more then two days without porn, as if you would die you know? If porn really is that meaningless then why would guys rather want to do that then be with the real girl if that is so much more special and "can't compare to a magazine or video?" I am really confussed!
keep in mind, we have been together for a year, were best friends before living together as bf/gf, NEVER had a fight, tells me he loves me constantly, even buys me little gifts, has even told me out of the blue when I was naked that I could be a girl from an x-rated magazine, http://www.myspace.com/arkanadesade... (I look like this)
Sometimes I feel like I am playing mommy, I cook, clean, comfort him, all those girly things, and yeah we do have sex. 3 times a week or so, but porn is everyday. Help me!
2007-04-12 20:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I don't know sounds like some sort of addiction to me. That or he just likes to window shop. It is kind of like having the car of your dreams and then watching car shows and reading magazines about new/exotic cars. You love the one that you have but you still appreciate other makes and models. But I also think that if it is a problem then you need to let him know that and try to work it out. Also look on the bright side, you should not have to worry about him cheating b/c between the porn and the 3 times a week he should be satisfied.
2007-04-13 02:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK AT WHAT YOU CALL YOURSELF YOUR FULL OF YOURSELF AND ARE SPOILED THERE IS NO CHANGING IT NOW IT TAKES YEARS AND SOMETHING BIG AND BAD IN YOUR LIFE TO CHANGE PEOPLE YOUR SCARED A LITTLE BUT INSIDE THE FEAR DOESN'T GO DEEP BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET ANOTHER GUY NO PROBLEM IN TRUTH YOU ALREADY GOT ONE PICKED OUT THAT IF GUY AFTER PUTTING THIS GUY THOUGH SIX MONTHS OF YOUR BULL AND MAKING HIM PAY FOR THE SINS OF SOME OTHER GUY HE NEEDS TO BE FREE AND YOU NEED TO BE ALONE FOR A VERY LONG TIME UNTIL YOU GET OVER YOURSELF AND GROW UP TO PLAY WITH PEOPLE THE WAY YOU HAVE AND DO IS SAD AND SO WRONG MAYBE CHURCH WOULD HELP THERE IS WORK TO DO BUT YOU HAVE TAKEN THE FIRST STEP BY UNDERSTANDING THAT YOU NEED HELP AND THERE IS A PROBLEM I SAY THESE THING TO HELP YOU SEE DEEPER AND HOPEFULLY PUT YOU ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY AND HAPPINESS IF YOU TALK WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND AND BE HONEST HE MAY BE WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU AND STAY WITH YOU AND IT IS POSSIBLE THAT YOU COULD BUILD AN RELATIONSHIP TO LAST A LIFETIME GOOD LUCK.
2016-05-19 15:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One reason is that with porn there is no obligation to perform. No foreplay, no intercourse, no need to please your partner. Thus there is no pressure. Further, porn allows you to fantasize experiences you might like but do not get. You are normal!!
Chow!!
2007-04-13 05:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could consider putting a filter on the computer, and not tell him what the password is, maybe he wants to stop. k-9 filter is good.
2007-04-13 06:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by chrishw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋