weird dreams...?

Question

hi, this might sound weird but latly iv'e been having some crazy dreams.. i want to know what they mean.. dreams like having sex but not being satisfied by it and dreams with death of family members.. can anyone help me?

to let people know im 21 and i have a boyfriend... and so far thanx to the first answer b/c it's been 5 almost 6 days since we hade sex due to use being apart

and i just moved in with hm so i haven't seen my parents in a long time

Answer 1

Homosexual
To dream that you are homosexual (but you are not in your waking life), represents a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and compassion.� If, in your dream, you are not comfortable with homosexuality, then it suggests some fears/anxieties about your masculinity (if you are male) and femininity (if you are female).�You may be experiencing some insecurity in your relations with the opposite sex.�

On a side note, it is common for expectant fathers to have dreams of homosexual encounters.

If you are homosexual in your waking life, then the dream is simply a reflection of your own self.



Oral Sex
To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex, signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy.� It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life.� The dream may also be a pun on talking about sex. You may need to communicate with your mate about your sexual needs and desires. Perhaps you are acting out your sexual wishes.



Sex
To dream about sex, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.

To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.

To dream that you are having sex with an ex or something that is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together.�Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fianc�. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.

If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, signifies not necessarily homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side.



Transsexual
To dream that you are transsexual, symbolizes your anxieties or ambivalence about masculine/feminine roles or passive/aggressive behavior. You may be reluctant in dealing with these issues. If you are considering or awaiting transsexual surgery, then the dream may represent your anxieties and fears about the surgery, recovery, and life after surgery.

To see a transsexual in your dream, indicates that the masculine and feminine aspects of your Self has been damaged. You may be unwilling to confront your shadow self.



Bisexual
If you are not bisexual and dream that you are, then it may indicate some sexual repression. You may be trying to compensate for your lack of sexual expression. Alternatively, it may represent general sexual confusion.



Anal Sex
To dream about anal sex, represents submission. You may be afraid to yield to the wants and desires of others.

Sexuality
To dream about your own sexuality, signifies the secrets and meaning of life. You may be dealing with life issues of birth, marriage, and/or death. Alternatively, it suggests that you are concerned about losing your sex appeal.

Death
To dream about the death of a loved one, suggests that you are lacking a certain aspect or quality that the loved one embodies. Ask yourself what makes this person special or what do you like about him. It is that very quality that you are lacking in your own relationship or circumstances. Alternatively, it indicates that whatever that person represents has no part in your own life

Answer 2

Hi Memorize

To understand about dreams it is important to remember that periods of REM sleep (which is when we dream) usually last for around 20-30 minutes, yet your description would fill only a fraction of that time. What you DON'T remember could easily be as important, if not MORE important than the little bit you still retain when you wake up.

Anyone with a reasonable imagination could invent a detailed interpretation for your dream, (see the variety of DIFFERENT interpretations offered in reply to most questions about dreams in this forum) but however interesting their interpretation might be, it is VERY unlikely to be true.

Because:

The purpose of dreams, as far as we understand them, is to process the vast amount of information that comes in through your senses each day whilst you're awake.

On this basis the "meaning" of our dreams is simply that we are making sense of information which previously didn't have a "meaning", for us, because it hadn't been processed so as to fit into our mental maps of the world (all your existing beliefs, ideas, values, etc.).
(This has NOTHING to do with how old the dreamer is.)

Given this purpose, there will always be something in each dream, though we may not remember it, which ties the dream to recent "real life" events. However most of the things which appear in our dreams may have nothing to do with what has been happening in our life just before the dream occurs. Things can appear in a dream that have been part of the dreamer's memories as far back as they first started forming memories - or anytime in between then and now.

Nor do the things in your dreams have to be obviously related to each other. Like I said, dreaming is a process of finding/making meaning, and the brain can draw from anywhere in its huge store of memories in order to carry out that process.

By the way, there is nothing random about this process, but your subconscious mind can come up with connections that your conscious mind would never dream of (!), which is why dreams often seem pretty weird.

So when, if ever, you happen to notice yourself having what seems like a weird dream in future you can literally rest assured that everything is OK. Your brain is actually doing, with great skill, one of the many jobs it was designed to do

Answer 3

The 'death by family' could simply mean a strained or spotty connection with them. Becuase you haven't talked/communicated with them in awhile, your brain can interpret them as being 'dead' in order to stimulate you to reconnect with them. It's kinda like almost being hit by a car makes you grateful for being alive, same idea.

Or, depending upon the relationship you have with your parents, it could be that moving in with your bf is making you feel 'grown up' and thus like you are freed from being a child. The death of one's parents, especially when we are of legal age, makes us the 'adult' in the family.

As for the 'not being satisfied with sex' dreams, it could mean a bunch of different things. It could simply be a 'fear' that your mind has that, now that you two are living together, the sex will get 'worse' or won't be as good as it was before (common fear.) It could be that you are missing the sexual connection you have with your bf, and thus the 'sex'/connection you have right now is not making you satisfied. Sex is also a form of communication, so if you and your bf are constantly missing each other during a stretch (him working long hours, you falling asleep when he gets home) then the sex could be a metaphor for the relationship in general at this point.

The thing with dreams/our mind is that it doesn't waste time in 'saying' when something is wrong. Even if what we are going through is a temporary thing, our mind treats it like "I want it taken care of and I want it taken care of NOW, so here's a bulletin." Maybe moving in with your bf is simply bringing forth the anxiety in your dreams that accompanies moving in with somebody: is this a good thing, what about the people in my life, how will this affect them, will I be happy, will this last, what if I am not happy, what if this doesn't work out, etc etc etc, questions that mostly can only be answered with time. Since your mind doesn't take a 'wait and see' approach, it chooses to 'freak' out within the privacy of your own head, 'act' out its worries, and then wake up and go "boy, I'm glad I got that thought out of the way. On to the next one."

Answer 4

Um sure final night I had the strangest desires approximately people who i pass to college with. I yet it become unusual because of the fact I graduated college this twelve months. And the different night I had a dream that each and all of the travelers that confirmed as much as my grad. party had those faces like the little ones do in the purple Floyd video for yet another Brick in the Wall

Answer 5

Cool it! Dreams don't ALWAYS have a meaning! AND, they depend on how old you are and the issues you face in life. IF you dream the same dream several times, or if you dream the same KIND of dream, then maybe there is something inside of you to look at, but don't take dreaming too seriously... life for me is filled with 'dreams'. I love it!

Answer 6

Probably a site like http://www.ihadadreamlastnight.com will help you out. There is a lot of content regarding dreams there

Answer 7

Psychologists always say that YOU are the best interpreter of your own dreams....what do YOU think they mean?

Answer 8

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