I was with my ex for five years, give or take. We have a son together. We moved to Florida to be a family but she broke up with me. I was broken hearted for awile but decide to move on so I started talking to someone. She told me she wanted to try one more time so I got back with her. Everything was good, or at least I thought so. I bought an engagement ring, was planning where to take her to the honymoon and everything. But would'nt you know it she broke up with me. I still love her and to my shock I'm still in love with her. She doesnt feel the same way so I'm trying to forget about her in this way but having trouble doing it. There's more to the story but don't have enough room. So if there's any one who can relate your advice would be HIGHLY appreciated. SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE.
2007-04-12 16:27:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm so sorry. You know what if she doesn't want to be with you, I would say just do your best to move on. If she tries to get back with you again, I wouldn't advise it because you're heart is just going to shatter more. I need to take this advise I'm giving you. Because my ex broke up with me after 2 years of dating, and he broke my heart so bad the first time he did it but I got back with him because I didn't think we were done. He broke up with me twice, and the second time was the end of us. I think I loved him more than he loved me, but I just have to get over him and stop thinking about him all the time. But you should take as much time as you need to not talk to her, so you can get you thoughts straight and then try to be her friend. Because after 5 years of course you're going to have strong feelings for her, it's not like you can just forget about her at the snap of a finger. It's going to take some time, I wish you the best!
2007-04-12 16:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by atcblue05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be strong, and try to move on. You sound like a very nice person, and there is someone out there that will love and appreciate you. Sorry you are going threw this! Good Luck, and just try and move forward. It's her loss!
2014-09-26 11:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I am so sorry that this has happened to. Loosing love is the toughest.
No one can give you a magic formula that will help you get over this. The best answer can only be time. You may always have a soft spot in your heart for this woman. Besides you share a child, so you will always be connected to her to a degree.
But love can blossom for again. Work through your disappointment. Go through the grief process. But remember to reach out to others and in time you will be able to move on with your life.
Good Luck and best wishes...
2007-04-12 16:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have asked an identical question the Bee Gees did in a music: "How do you mend a broken coronary heart? How do you end the rain from falling down? How do you end the sunlight from shining? What makes the international pass around?" I first discovered to be truthful approximately why the dating did not artwork. I attempt to not concentration on what replaced into misplaced or what went incorrect. I bear in mind the constructive. And forgive the unfavourable. I bear in mind love is of undertaking, and that i will purely play the hand i've got been dealt. i don't assign blame, I alibi. I remind myself of the sturdy characteristics, for the two one human beings. I set constructive targets, and artwork to realize them. Be constructive, not vindictive. And admit the blunders you have made. And assign blame to your self first. once you have finished berating your self you are able to start on your ex. because that's not a technique to hold excitement on your coronary heart you sometimes won't end. It took a pair of emotional beat downs for me to benefit this, yet this does artwork
2016-10-22 00:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing more difficult than having that happen. All you can do is be strong, and try to move on. You sound like a very nice person, and there is someone out there that will love and appreciate you. Sorry you are going threw this! Good Luck, and just try and move forward. It's her loss!
2007-04-12 16:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear that.....Dear, I have learned the hard way myself that you NEVER go back......NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT TO! The only advice that I have for you is to try to move on with your life, you are allowed to grieve, that is part of healing and only time can heal your pain........In my opioin a broken heart is the worst pain of all.....Good Luck :)
2007-04-12 16:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, its tough no matter what the situation, if your truely in love with the person. you have to let the pain be there, grieve and do what ever you must to keep your mind off of it, cry alone or with a friend, hang in there it gets easier. eventually you be able to remember without feeling the pain and know you have moved on.
2007-04-12 16:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by fire and ice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try and stay happy, fortunately I cant relate to the experience. Remind her of your right to be the father of your son and that you require access to him whenever.
2007-04-12 16:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many fish in the sea, don't give up. But don't jump into another relationship just yet. You'll find the "one" eventually.
2007-04-12 16:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from personal experience she goes back to you because of an attachment. she may love you deep down but her attachment is what keeps her coming and going. i know it doesnt make sense, but trust me. she needs to get help. and you need to either suggest couple's counseling or just letting her go. if she cant help herself then there's not future with her. good luck!
2007-04-12 16:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋