i have feeling for someone but i don't understand why i can't shair them with her, i see her 4 times a week. when where together i just feel so good but when she leaves and i know i should of asked her if she would like to get together or something. it bothers me for not saying nothing. whats my problem? i just can't figure this out. it hurts more to not say something ........ how could i work my way up to telling her? advice appreated........
2007-04-12 14:58:10 · 3 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey,
This is joyce from Taiwan! After I read your problem, I think the most problem you have is that you like her much, but you choose to ignore what real feeling you have. You care everything that is related with her as well.
Just tell her what you feel. If she treats you as her friend or she really like you, she will understand.
Joyce
2007-04-12 16:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Joyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of rejection. Now you have a clue what we guys go through in trying to get up the courage to ask out you women... I suspect you're thinking too much into it and scaring yourself right out of doing it. Stop over thinking. you only live once, make the best of it and go for it. Ask. No regrets. Would a, should a, could a, didn't.
2007-04-12 16:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Doc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature.. even the most confident people feel a little nervous when asking someone out. Nothing wrong with that.
Just be bold and come right out with it.
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2007-04-12 15:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋