I'm trying to get revenge on this retarded person that used to be my friend. He's just really perverted and i'm sick of it. I know that revenge isn't the best thing to do, but he went around the school telling people that i grabed his upper chest area and stuff like that. I need something that will really hurt his feelings. He's an indian and has a weight problem. Black hair, and he's pretty much a lozer that nobody likes!
2007-04-12 14:55:26 · 29 answers · asked by peggy t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No matter ho much you don't like this guy, it's just wayy wrong to get revenge. By doing so, it could get both you and him into a lot of trouble
2007-04-12 14:59:38 · answer #1 · answered by allie2299 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah so getting your revenge will make the situation better? Or start a out of control situation. Well before you do whatever revenge tips the posters of this site give you, step back and ask yourself "are we really never going to be friends again." Because opting to never speak to this person might hurt him in the long run. If you are really upset about what rumors he is spreading, you may want to take the mature approach and approach him. Tell him that his actions hurt you and you can't forgive him and your friendship is gone. It's not as exciting as taking revenge but losing a friend can be painful.
2007-04-12 22:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is really not revenge but utter honesty, perfectly timed.
Why not walk up to him when there are lots of kids around and VERY sincerely, maturely, loudly and humbly say to him in a loud (but not yelling) voice, "You know, you are a pretty mean person to be spreading lies and rumors and it is obvious why we are no longer friends."
Take the highest road you can, and I guarantee it will boomerang on him.
2007-04-12 22:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh you are nasty. Why did you mention he is an indian. Is that important here? It seems you had racist views hidden while you were his friend or you wouldnt have mentioned his race. I am surprised you managed to keep it under wraps so long. And you mention he has a weight problem too. I dont like you and I think you are acting like a prize b....
2007-04-12 22:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell everyone you didnt do that. He's lying and you know you wouldnt do something like that.
if you try to get revenge, you'll make yourself look like a fool. just let it go, be the bigger person and mature a bit. i know its hard but really...not a big deal or anything. dont make fun of his weight please! you dont know what he goes on at home, he could be hiding something, he could be beaten, he could've gone through something hoprrible that nobody knows about. dont make fun of his weight either, he feels insecure about it and if you bring it yup, you'll really hurt his feelings.
but next time he messes with you again, just yell out "no i dont like you!" and that'll scare him off lol. or just ask "do u pick on me because you like me?" and i know he'll stop!
plus, getting renvenge can end up in bad ways you dont know of. you never see it cokming but it'll come. Karma! And he will get his Karma too.
but please, if he's overweight, dont make fun of him. i mean, it'll really hurt his feelings and big him a lot. i can just imagmie it...dont crush his spirit anymore he has crushed you. whats up with teens these days is they think being badis cool or something when it isnt. you need to relize stuff
2007-04-12 22:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Malina H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take revenge on him. Kill him with kindness instead! Be nicer and he will regret what he has done. Revenge won't make you feel any better, but will start a series of problems for you.
2007-04-12 22:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there you go...but i mean dont u think he was just doing it for a lil attention. It will be pretty sad if you were his only friend and u quit on him. It sounds to me that you are a lil upset and hopefully you can talk to him and let him know that he is hurting your feelings. Dont take it the wrong way..maybe he thinks differntly and didnt know that was upseting you.... best of lucks..but believe me revenge will only lead you to the wrong path...
2007-04-12 22:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by taty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. You'll just make yourself look like an ***. If you just let him keep digging his own hole eventually everyone else will see what a jerk he is and it will come back on him tenfold. I went through the same thing and the "staying cool and waiting it out" game worked a thousand times better against my former friend than anything I could have done.
2007-04-12 21:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by 'tisJustMe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. revenge is what has killed alot of people. Be the bigger man and let it go. Don't worry about him cuz what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. So let it go and move on with your life with or without him. Cuz a true friend sticks by you and is closer than a brother
2007-04-12 22:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by yung joc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to take revenge, you are just as guilty as him. dont do it, but a good way to get revenge is steal his lunch and put dirt in it, and a other good way is to dump cold water on him and tell him that you know about the lie he said.
2007-04-12 22:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋