Why is everyone taking her side?

Question

My best friend has put me through a lot this week and im tired of her sh*t. she was talking smack about me with her other lil preppy fake friends, my boyfriend fell for her inncoent lil girl act and they kissed, i broke up with him.

i cried 2 periods in school and i talked to my mom about it and she was, like "maybe you thought about it wrong, maybe she wasnt the one who talked smack about u" and i was like WTF????? I know what she did, im not stupid and i talked to my oler brother and he was the same! I talked to my true friends at school and they say "she seems nice, this and that". OMG!!!! Whats wrong with you???

she did horrible things to me this week and they all think shes an innocent lil girl, she's not! I know what she did! She tries to play it cool and innocent, espeically with my bf.

whats? wrong here?

im not going crazy.

Answer 1

Social munipulater..... from the way you describe it ether extremely good at it, or your social circles are just full of dumbarse's. Geeze your ex-boyfriend there what a creep..... also the "seems nice and stuff" shows how little they really know this girl, plus there not your true friends... true friends get into your business and help you, they don't just shrug there shoulders and say o yea she is nice and stuff.... thats just cold and rude really, like they don't care one lick about what your going thru with her in the first place or don't even care to understand were "you" are coming from. Which is why I think you have a problem, namly you don't know true friends, and besides if you did you could break down her little cool and innocent act with the truth... namly that true relationships with people means not screwing them over, washing your hands of them, and plain not caring.... looks like everyones treating you sh!tty.... good luck, hopfully school is almost over for you, and you can get into the real world instead of what public school give us,..... just a game....