Im a girl. My close friend who is a girl, we have a blast together and talk about all kinds of things. But whenever I try to get other people for us to hang out with or introduce her to anyone she gets all snooty and quiet. Why?? She is not SHY.
2007-04-12 14:49:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is probably shy around other people!
She can trust you and be herself around you but when other people are around she prob afraid of them judging her and she feels awkard. I do it all the time and am trying to stop, I dont want people to think I am snobby but i just dont know what to say around my boyfriends friends!!!
So its either that or your friend is jealous of you having friends and paying attention to them (but I doubt its that) She is more than likely shy!!!!
Try to get people she knows and is comfortable to hang out with!
2007-04-12 14:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by J<3R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend that was exactly like that! I once asked her why she did that it was b/c she didnt want anyone to take her spot she didnt want to lose me as a friend! That's more and likely why she acts the way she does when trying to bring in someone else! She is afriad u will eventually leave her out and u will have new people to be with!
If ya want just ask, she may get mad at you and if she does it wont be for very long..lol
well I hope the best for ya
take care
2007-04-13 01:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by woohooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't comfortable socializing with a big group of friends.
I know when i was a teen, i hated hanging out with a big crowd of friends, 2-3 friends was the maximum for me. But then again, i was shy,
2007-04-12 21:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Proud mommy of 2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
possibly not shy, but maybe your introducing her to guys that she might have a crush on......she could be looking in interest for a guy........be a good friend of hers and try to figure out what is the problem........if she doesn't tell you give her time........we girls sometimes all need it.....Wish you luck my friend, the sooner the better.
2007-04-12 21:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by A.Rom. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be scared to let other people into your group she probably likes things how they are and if other people are allowed to join in that could change how it has always been and she doesnt want it to change could also be she doesnt want to share you time with others.
2007-04-12 21:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend does the same thing, she hates for me to have other friends, and when I introduce her to other girls she acts like a b- and tries to start arguments but its OK for her to have other female friends. Your friend is obviously jealous of other people being your friend.
2007-04-12 21:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably just likes the way your friendship is now.. and doesn't want to risk changing it or destroying it in any way.
Rather then being snobby, she is probably being more protective.
2007-04-12 21:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Abbey R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i reckon she just likes it with the two of you. she doesn't want anyone knew coming into your friendship. and she might be a little bit insecure about someone stealing you away from her. you need to make it clear to her that she is your favourite Friend and that no one will come between you. its just that you want her to have fun with other people aswell. xo
2007-04-12 21:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by SubbYMonKeY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just jelous because she's afraid that she'll get left out. It's happened to me before.
2007-04-12 21:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she isn't shy around you ,doesnt mean she isn't shy around other ppl. maybe she just doesnt want to make other friends at this point in her life.
2007-04-12 21:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by iluvduckiesforlife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋