I'm just curious what your thoughts are.
2007-04-12 14:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by BellaJ_DDils 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not trying to be stereotypical or offensively ignorant... I am just curious. I'm a straight woman, but have no issues with people who are gay/bi/whatever. I have family and friends who are gay.
2007-04-12 14:46:34 · update #1
I can see myself married to either or. Whomever I'm head over heels for, I could be with and live without the other. When I look for love, it's not about if I want a penis or a vagina.
2007-04-12 14:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Priscilla Mason 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well . . . it's not as though most people have two potential mates that they love equally with all their heart and simply have to decide between. Nobody just decides to get married without having someone in mind, and then pick the best person out.
Rather, you just go about your life, dating or whatever, you meet someone who makes your heart pitter-patter, and if you love them enough and feel like they fulfill and complete you, you might marry them. That's the way it is for straight people, and it's the way it is for bisexual people, too. They don't choose a man over a woman, or a woman over a man, but, like everyone else who is monogamous, they choose the love of their life over everyone else.
At least, that's how it is for me. But I think it applies to pretty much everyone who wants monogamous marriage.
2007-04-12 23:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to blondes as well as brunettes, which one do you choose to marry? The one you fall in love with, right?
But if you're equally in love with two people, and one happens to be a man and the other a woman, that's a different story. It's not about preferring one sex over the other, it's just about love: the lifetime-of-happiness kind of love.
2007-04-12 21:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by luckylab8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably the other sex for the ability to reproduce, unless you don't want to.
But love is stronger than anything, so whoever or whatever you fall in love with will decide. I'm straight and I'm inlove with a girl, and I'm a guy so yeah. Hopefully after a few years we won't be apart, but my luck is bad and my skills are horrible so yeah.
2007-04-12 21:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by blmr0123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't choose. marriage is about love. you can't help who you fall in love with. i'm bi, and i ended up with a guy because i fell crazy in love with him and can't imagine my life without him.
2007-04-13 05:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever they fall in love with. Nothing matters when it comes to love.
2007-04-12 22:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by guitargirlll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who you love.
2007-04-12 22:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word baby
lol
My girl is bi-sexual but she likes guys more though
2007-04-12 21:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about someone you've fallen in love with, regardless of gender.
2007-04-12 21:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Marry a hermaphrodite. Then you don't have to choose.
2007-04-12 21:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mon Ray 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋