I have been having thoughts of suicide??please help?

Question

Life has been going good, but some days I'am really depressed. I got a new job, FINALLY! I feel just dead though.
Some days I feel like no one cares about me, but I know they do. What should I do? I'am really confused?

Answer 1

Frankie, what in the world happened since the last few days? I made you a contact because of your up beat humor, your unique view on the world and your continually changing avatar. lol You just don't fit the profile! Wow, there are several of my sons girl friends that would love to be in your shoes! You've got great character, don't stoop to weird attitudes to spice up a boring day! Please!

Answer 2

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, even if the problem doesn't seem temporary right now. Please, PLEASE go to the EMERGENCY ROOM right now!!!! If you don't do that, call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Suicide is NOT the answer, and it leaves family and friends feeling guilty and wondering why they didn't see it coming, or what could they have done to prevent it. Depression (which is what it sounds like you have) is VERY EASILY treatable with drugs and therapy. Don't quit five minutes before the miracle!!!!!!! You are worth it, and it's obvious that people care just by the number of answers you've received in such a short period of time. If absolute strangers care this much, don't you think the people around you care also, even if they don't always show it or act it? Please don't kill yourself. It really is a permanent solution that leads nowhere. Most people don't want to commit suicide, they just want the pain to go away. And medication and counseling can help with that. Please call that number above RIGHT NOW FOR HELP!!!

Answer 3

Depression and suicidal are two totally different things. I can tell you right off the bat that you aren't suicidal. You're young, and seeking a little attention. You are feeling a bit abandoned for some reason. The feelings that you are having are completely normal, and everybody at some point goes through a little depression. You need to start finding ways of making yourself happy because nobody can do that for you. If you go throughout life expecting praise from other people in order to base your happiness, then I can tell you that you're depression will only grow deeper. The best advise that I can say is to do things to make other people feel happy. Loathing in self pity will only bring you trouble and have bad relationships with the people in your life. So step it up a notch, and do something to make someone else feel good. I promise, the reward will exceed your expectations.

Answer 4

PLEASE DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE! Just reading what you said made me so sad I had to respond.

I don't know everything, and I have had some pretty rough times myself, but I have learned that life is worth living. All the good and bad, the ups and downs, are what make life a true adventure. Things don't stay bad, I promise.

Can I share some advice? Something that people who have felt down like you have been slowly learning for thousands of years is that the key to happiness isn't thinking about you and how nobody cares about you. The key is learning to genuinely serve and care for others. Every major religious leader from Jesus to Buddha, Mohamed to Zoroaster taught their followers that the best way to find happiness was to forget yourself and your worries and help those around you.

Love others with all your heart and you will find your own heart is too filled with love to even have time to feel bad about yourself.

Please, take care and know that I, and so many others care too.

God bless and good luck.

Answer 5

please go to www.hopeline.com and www.suicideline.com for on those sites you can meet people who care and who you can turn to whenever you feel the need to talk and to have someone who listens you can also do your own search under depressed/suicidal thoughts etc I'm hoping that once you go on those sites you can form a buddy system that you can contact whenever 24hr open lines. Keeping sad thoughts inside is not a good thing for then the sadness stays too but once you talk or even ,like I do when I feel the need,when things just get to be too much, I write them in my journal just to get them out of my head,away from me onto paper for it takes this heavy weight off of me. Sometimes although the days go by fine its the nights that are bad,when things really bother me and things just go round and round getting heavier until one ismply one wants to scream out of frustration-when this happens I'll fix myself some warm milk with honey ,pull out the well worn journal and write(heating the milk releases a ingrdient that relaxes the mind/body and the thoughts get slower my body relaxes and then I'm able to get back to sleep. Chamomiolle tea is also good for can sip during the day but it calms the mind too. There also are medicines that help greatly with depression for sometimes the chemicals in the brain get unbalanced and the medication will balance it back. Hormones affect the way we feel -too little of serotonin being produced and we get depressed,feel tired but with medication it raises the level and we're Ok again.Try talking to your family doctor for it just might be the first step in getting to feeling good again. Wish you much happiness and success at your new job. Hang in there

Answer 6

I've been feeling the same way sometimes. I'm just seventeen, but I feel like no one cares, I feel hopeless and suicidal. I believe I have depression, but my mom believes my so-called condition is something made in my head and only I can make myself stop it. However, when I feel like that, I talk to somebody, like my best friend, because my parents just don't understand. Or I write down my feelings and cry my eyes out in a journal, which helps me just get it out. Any way of getting your feelings out, like exercise, writing, or just talking really does help. I understand how you feel, because I'm there too. I'll pray for you, and if you just need someone to talk to, send me a message.

Answer 7

Life is good and part of the reason why it is good is that it has ups and downs ok. forget about whatever is depressing you and hand it to the only one that can bear it for u - His name is Jesus. Leave everything in his hands and he will direct you.

Never harbour the thought of committing suicide because that's what the devil wants you to do. Hold on and pull yourself together and see what the lord can do.

Answer 8

Please go see a Dr as soon as you can! If you are feeling that way RIGHT now call 911 and they will send someone out to help you.. it is so normal to have times of depression but for you to feel the need to "kill yourself" you have moved past that and You need Help! Please don't try and work it out yourself because it might be to late for that.
Many people go through these same feelings so you are not alone.
I am sure there are many people who love you and would be willing to help.. Just reach out to them and tell them what you are going through.
And just one more thing.. Even though you may not see him God Loves you. :)

Answer 9

Maybe, you need more sleeping.
you should eat some Ca 50% Mg 50% daily,
This can prevent or reduce or delay your non-logical thought.
Anti-anxiety and Anti_depression drugs would have a negetive side effect would worson the situation.
Meet with you firends and consult with your doctor.

Answer 10

Hi, I will try to give you some relevant ideas for the question, my inspiration is from reading "Beyond good and evil" of the great philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche



Nietzsche: 34. At whatever standpoint of philosophy one may place oneself nowadays, seen from every position, the ERRONEOUSNESS of the world in which we think we live is the surest and most certain thing our eyes can light upon:


J -> In the time to caome, you will grow up and will not be confused anymore
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Nietzsche: we find proof after proof thereof, which would fain allure us into surmises concerning a deceptive principle in the "nature of things.


e -> you need to realize the meaning of the earth, forget the meaning of human
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Nietzsche: " He, however, who makes thinking itself, and consequently "the spirit," responsible for the falseness of the world--an honourable exit, which every conscious or unconscious advocatus dei avails himself of--he who regards this world, including space, time, form, and movement, as falsely DEDUCED, would have at least good reason in the end to become distrustful also of all thinking;


s -> any events should be looked upon as a chess move on the chessboard
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Nietzsche: has it not hitherto been playing upon us the worst of scurvy tricks? and what guarantee would it give that it would not continue to do what it has always been doing?


u -> you should see yourself, see the emptiness, see what creativity really mean, and be what you really are
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Nietzsche: In all seriousness, the innocence of thinkers has something touching and respect-inspiring in it, which even nowadays permits them to wait upon consciousness with the request that it will give them HONEST answers:


s -> don't lose time improving yourself, but let yourself improve naturally
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Nietzsche: for example, whether it be "real" or not, and why it keeps the outer world so resolutely at a distance, and other questions of the same description.

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