I got many problems that I cant handle on my own but I have no body besides one person who is willing to help on an expense of me becoming his girlfriend. I don't wanna be his girlfriend but I need his help, What should I really do? I feel so helpless and feel like ma life has no meaning right now.
2007-04-12 12:46:44 · 10 answers · asked by didi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that you should state the problem but anyways you shouldn't go out with him even he can help you with god knows what because you don't want to
2007-04-12 12:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Aracely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
irregardless what the problem is you would just be using him if you allow him to help you in the way you have described. Are you a user? Why would you even ponder the idea? You are not helpless you are just looking for the easy way to get what you want, but using others to get it is wrong in any respect. instead of depending on that person, depend on yourself and go out and do whatever it takes to get the job done. Then you can be proud of the result once you succeed, and if you don't succeed, you can at least say you did your best. Don't give up on the only one that matters in your success in life, you!
2007-04-12 13:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something. Friendship does not have limitations and conditions. If this person is really a person you have been able to confide in, and trust - and now they want a 'relationship' you need to re-check the friendship. At this point, do you really want to be 'his girlfriend'? Sounds like you have many other issues that require a sound friendship without 'girlfriend-boyfriend' ties. Re-think your position with this person. Be honest and open - if you do not want a relationship like this - say so! If he can't deal with your issues and friendship the way it is - you need to either 'find another' - or learn to deal with and handle your own problems. You have to trust yourself. You can answer your own questions if you learn to trust you.; Good luck my friend.
2007-04-12 12:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really was your friend, he wouldn't pressure you into dathing him. NEVER DATE FOR SYMPATHY REASONS. it's a guarantee that you will be miserable. If you don't think you have friends now, wait until you break up with him. Then you will especially have no friends coated with bad memories and regrets. You have to find a way to be a stronger person. You have to believe in yourself and do what is best for you. Don't ever let anyone make you do something you don't want to.
2007-04-12 12:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hollarback G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him help you as much as he can, but if you don't want to be around him then leave. You can find others in your network of friends that can help. Find something that you like to do and enjoy it. If it is money that is the problem, read the book "Extreme Money makeover" he makes a lot of sense.
2007-04-12 12:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by boaterj1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have more faith in yourself. You never need a man or anyone else to make it. Being with him will trap you. It sounds like your just going through a hard time right now, trust that things can and will get better.
2007-04-12 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what kind of help you need but, this guy is a jerk if he will only help you if you become his girl......you should weigh your other options i'm sure you could come up with some other solution......i think u should ask your parents for help even if you think they wont or can't
2007-04-12 13:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him babe coz if his a real friend you will be able to do that hun coz if you dont tell him how you feel it will do your head in and will probably down the line ruin what you got already xx
2007-04-12 13:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by ANNE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need more friends, positive friends. This guy is a player...
2007-04-12 13:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray.........
2007-04-12 12:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋