The other night i got into an arguement with my mom and we stopped talking and know she is on a resperator.
2007-04-12 12:25:57 · 47 answers · asked by Travis F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WHY ARE YOU STILL HERE.. WHY ARE YOU ASKING THIS QUESTION!!!!
YOU SHOULD BE THERE!!!
NEXT TO HER!!!
AND FORGET ABOUT THE FIGHT.. JUST BE WITH HER..
COME ON GOOOOOOOOOO!
2007-04-12 12:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Azz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a mom and no matter what my fight with my child was over I love my child. Its not your fault shes on a resperator its gods choice ,she knows that. As much as your stressing shes wishing she could tell you not to stress it.A mother loves her child even if we get mad at them we dont care what they have done, or who thinks our kids are brats we dont care if our kid is a monster at times we fight valiently till the end we do care if our kids are in pain and by you aching over this its causing your mom anguish watching you hurt.Just hold your moms hand tell her you love her and say Im sorry for our fight I know you love me mom.You will most likely see a slight smile or a hand sqeeze but trust me she'll hear you .I lost my dad and I watched him die its an awful experiance it ages you If your smart you'll learn from this.Treat your loved ones preciously.Good luck your mom loves you.
2007-04-12 12:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by Leanne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness I am so sorry to hear that. Hey don't you be thinking that her being sick is any of your fault. Maybe your mom was sick and she just didn't want you to know. All you can do at this point is just be there for her, even if she is sleeping she will know that you are there with her and you can talk to her and tell her how much that you love her.
I hope you all the best and I really hope that things turn around for your mother.
God Bless.
2007-04-12 12:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do???? You go to the hospital & apologize to your mom for the argument & tell her that you love her with all your heart. C'mon, whatever it was couldn't be as important as your relationship with your mom, especially if (God forbid) she IS dying.
Last year I was in the hospital for 5 weeks, 3 weeks in ICU. I had less that a 2% chance of survival going in, & at one point in ICU, when I was in a coma they actually gave me a 0% chance of making it. My relationship with my youngest daughter had been strained for about 6 months & she still held a grudge. She has since told me that she wouldn't have been able to forgive herself had I died before she got to the hospital to tell me she was sorry & that she loved me. It didn't matter that I was in a coma & she didn't think I could hear her. I knew.
Don't do (or not do) something that you will regret for the rest of your life. And believe me, telling your mom you love her is some of the best medicine she can receive!
2007-04-12 12:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by mercenarygrip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is ask God if you are a beliver and this is not to sound all religious but seriously you should ask God for forgiveness I know sometimes it is hard and sometimes you parents provoke you to do or say things that you regret but go to her and apologize tell that you love her and pray that she make it because she can and just because she is on a respirator doesn't mean she isn't gonna make it have faith cause prayer changes things so SMILE and your Mom really loves you and we as people all get under pressure and sometimes make mistakes and don't worry help is on it's way...
2007-04-12 12:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, forgive yourself. It is not your fault that she is in the hospital. Can you drive, go see her. Get a ride with someone and go see her. Tell her you are sorry for arguing and tell her you love her. Don't assume she will not make it. Talk positively. Tell her of all the things you will do together when she gets home. But, most of all, remember that your mom knows you love her and is not holding a grudge about your argument.
2007-04-12 12:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everybody else. Go to your mother and give her a heart felt apology. Let her know you love her, and stay by her side.
Trust me no matter how close or how distant the relationship between you and your mother is, you do not want this lingering over your head. If your mother passes, you will regret not making amends with her for the rest of your life.
My prayers are with both of you.
2007-04-12 12:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by oltmprch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend lived w/ her g mom cause her mom got sick and couldnt take care of her...and she told her grandma...that she hasent been to church in forever so the next day (sunday) her grandma said they would go to church then...but they got into a fight and i spent the night that night and she told her grandmother she hated her...and the next day (sunday) her grandma wouldnt wake up..and that meant she had past away...and i live w/ my grandparents(not my parents cause they dont care about me)...and i fight w/ my grandma and i try not to cause i know she can die...best thing for u to do is to go to ur mom and tell her everything u said ..u didnt mean and that u were just mad and prolly should tell her u feel lik ur the one who put her there cause u got into a fight..dont lie but tell her how much she loves u..cause it could keep her strong w/ her knowing u love her..and if she does pass from the illness...at least u both would know she died knowing that u really did love her...
good luck and my prayers go out to both of u and ur families!!
2007-04-12 12:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 DON'T FIGHT W/YOU MOM YOU ONLY HAVE ONE 2 STAND BY HER SIDE BE A SON 3 MAKE AMENDS SHE MIGHT NOT BE AROUND TO MUCH LONGER 4 TELL HER YOU LOVE HER ALL OF THE TIME THAT WILL HELP 5 TELL HER YOUR SORRY FOR EVERYTHING AND ALL OF THE FIGHTING 6 DON'T UPSET HER 7 MAKE PEACE W/ HER BEFORE ANYTHING HAPPENS SO YOU WON'T REGRET IT LATER 8 TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS LIKE A GOOD SON SHOULD 9 MAKE SURE SHE'S COMFORTABLE 10 GOOD LUCK IF YOU NEED TO TALK JUST ASK
2007-04-12 12:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down to the hospital and tell her you love her. She won't care about the fight, she'll just be glad to see you. No matter what she'll forgive you and you'll lift her spirits. And even if it gets to the point where people say she might not be able to here you, say it anyway. I guarantee she will. My dad died just recently and everyone else thought he might just be there and not actually be able to hear anyone. He talked to me. Just tell her you love her and it'll make both of you feel better.
2007-04-12 12:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by John 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Visit her, but don't blame yourself.
Sometimes we argue and it is unfortanate that your mother is in the hospital with this condition.
Talk to her maybe she can hear you.
I had a bad conversation the last time I saw my mother, she lived with me and my wife and she complained about my wife so I told her she had to leave she moved away and died shorlty thereafter.
i felt bad for a longtime but realized it is something that yo cannot control.
Besides we are human and we make mistakes, forgive and forget.
Best of luck to your mother.
2007-04-12 12:32:35 · answer #11 · answered by Jack L. W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋