ok this guy is obsessed with me! self-centered i know...but he found out where i lived and he did all these chores for me like mowed the lawn. (I was out of town) he puts notes on my door, locker (never use it thoe), send me them, there evrywhere! my friends like to mess with him and say stuff like "She likes you!" and he beleves them and im so sick of it. How do i put him down with out hurting him?...help
2007-04-12 12:15:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
kick him in the crotch.
2007-04-12 12:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ismaily Rules 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do seem very self-centered.
Just tell him the truth, trying to do it without hurting him will in fact only hurt him more. Amazing that so many women don't understand how life works.
2007-04-12 12:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a hard one I would through friendly conversation say wow '"I have a friend so and so,she is in a relationship and now we never spend time together so I know I am not ready for one I have my whole life ahead of me,how about you are you in a relationship"
2007-04-12 12:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by dalejr8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation years ago,I didn't have the heart or the guts to tell him,I simply avoided him like the plague,eventually he got the message.But I remember how akward it was for weeks.If you have the courage tell him how you feel, or write him a note, as nice as you can make it remember he'll be heartbroken but it's for the best.
2007-04-12 12:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be really nice, and tell him you're not looking for a boyfriend right anow and you're focusing on your schoolwork. Just be nice and polite. You can still be friends. Just be polite hope this works!
2007-04-12 12:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Cassandra Nichole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him him that he is a good guy but u can hang out wit him or date him and tell him that u have anther thing to be busy with and u are not ready for this
2007-04-12 12:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by *~Rukia~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋