Im 15 years old and i went out to a disco with my mates last month and got drunk. I actually got VERY drunk and ended up spending the entire night sitting beside and getting felt up by boys (same age as me) that ive never met before. I come from the UK so legal age for drinking alcohol is 18 and yes I know i broke the law i dont need to hear it all in a lecture, all i want is some advice! I cant remember much of the night but all of my mates have been telling me that I was always all over different boys the whole night. I was a shocked when i heard this but I just forgot about it. Problem is I've had my period for 5 years and it's always regular and on time but this time it's 2 weeks late. I'm realy worried that i could be pregnant. I was (and hopefully i still am) a virgin. What are the signs of pregnancy? Im SO scared. Im only 15 and I dont want to ruin my whole future or tell my parents as theyre strict and would kill me if they knew i even got drunk never mind pregnant! please help
2007-04-12 11:39:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you didnt just get drunk if you cant remember a bunch of boys touching you...they must have slipped you a mickey or some esctasy. If your two weeks late, take a test. find out now while you still have options.
2007-04-12 11:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were so drunk that you cannot remember having sex, you body was violated you could have been raped. Although pregnancy is what you are worried about you should be worried about other things too. You might be pregnant but you could have also picked up a Sexually transmitted disease. If you are really not sure if you had sex, I would go to a Dr. A Dr. can check you for everything. You need to explain to a trusted adult what happened and let them help you through this. I would say mom and dad will be upset, but will be relieved if you show remorse and have truly learned from your mistake.
Good luck and keep us posted!
2007-04-12 11:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Oh me oh my...♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strange you forgot a whole night but don't freak out until you know for sure. As regular as a period is it can skip around, try buying a pregnancy test first and if it's posotive you can worry. If not no worries, if you're not comfortable buying the test ask a close friend to buy it for you. Good luck.
2007-04-12 12:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by curiosityreincarnated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i really hope my advice helps you you're so young and got you ENTIRE life ahead of you. you should defiantly buy a pregnancy test to see if you are or talk to a friend's mom,(you know the kind that you can tell anything to and acts like a friend and not a parent). talk to someone I'm sure they will help and if you are pregnant make sure u tell your parents because no matter what and no matter how bad you think their reaction is, don't worry they love you too much to see you get hurt any more
2007-04-12 11:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Stace! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is get a home test, or go to a family planning clinic and get them to test you. If you're pregnant you may want to look at laying rape charges. What you decribe sounds like a drug I've heard of but can't remember off the top of my head. It's not rohipnal (sp?)... something else. In any case, get tested for pregnancy first.
2007-04-13 09:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Merrik N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard for you becuase you cant just tell your mom your going to the Dr. becuase she will be your ride and on her insurance. Can you get to a local pharmacy and take the test? I know its hard and scary, but you need to take a pregnancy test to know. If you are pregnant, then you have options to consider. You need to come clean with them once you know you are preganat or not. If not, then dont tell them anything and next time, you need to be aware that there are drugs out there people will slip into your drink! Good Luck
2007-04-12 14:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl this is hard to say cause u say u come from a very strict household. thats going to be really hard to try to hide or tell ur parents. but i dont think u should keep it cause u are still young but then again it really depends on u cause then u wont know who the baby dad is. if u only miss ur period for two weeks i think u should really wait a month to find out if ur pregnant cause that what happen to me. but i end up being pregnant. but the signs are ur eating habit change, morning or night sickness, a lil puge on ur belly, and gain a little weight and craving for things u never crave for. so good luck.
2007-04-12 11:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well see if you have a free clinic in your area
you can I hope ask your parent for some money
most of the Clinic are Free but I do not know those
day look it up in your local phone book and call around
and see if they can help you
I am praying everything alright and hope those boys did not
take you ,that was rape you know you was drunk even if you was a man or woman its again the law to do that to someone and as you said you do not remember any of this
2007-04-12 11:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the store and get a pregnancy test all you have to do is pee on a stick. If it says your pregnant go to a free womans clinic and get a real test done. They have to keep your information confidential so they can't tell your parents. If your getting sick a lot you could be pregnant.
2007-04-12 11:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mic_is28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor, asap. The doctor will advise you of any options/choices you might have. Take easy, relax, it is not the end of the world. But make sure you don't postpone the doctor visit. And next time you will know better. Good luck.
2007-04-12 11:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by nininha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋