I stink!!! Why?

Question

Ok, So I stink, and the problem is, I don't know why!
I'm 12 years old and I just don't know what to do...please help!
I take a shower every day, change my underwear every day, never wear the same clothes twice, they always smell good, but yet every time I go to school I still hear everyday "It stinks!" And I know it's me because first, everyone starts saying that and look at me and make jokes, and I feel miserable and hurt, and because this is my second school this year, and I have the same problems. It wasn't always like this, it was only when I reached puberty, from then on I always feel insecure and unconfident in everything and it is ruining my social life,because I can't make alot of friends.
It just really hurts me because I try so hard and I still fail, and I hate it. It's like I'm cursed. I even went into depression earlier this year because I didn't know how to handle it and I absolutley dread going to school. I'm extremely sensitive and want to be cured of this, plz help

Answer 1

Ask someone who really cares about you if this is true..that you actually smell, i don't think you will, i think these people are just horrible nasty people who think it is fun to make fun of people. They are bullies and you need to tell someone to make it stop, please tell someone and they can help you, i wish i could, take care!

Answer 2

You poor thing. The kids at your school are being so cruel to you. Is there anyone you trust who would give you an independent and totally honest opinion, preferably an adult? Could you ask them if the smell thing really is a problem? Once you know whether its real or just people at school picking on you, it will be easier to know where to start dealing with it. If you really do have a body odour problem then it is probably medical, but if you don't then however many times a day you shower and however good you smell, it may not change their behaviour. You will have to learn some techniques to help you increase your self esteem and ignore the abuse.

Good luck.

Answer 3

I think that you are a victim of bullying. These other people are obviously picking on you and know that they have hit a sore spot for you.

If you are washing regularly, then there should not be any problem. I work in a very hot bingo club and have to look my best for the customers: I frequently feel like I smell, but it is just my own paranoia.

What I think that you should do is take a wash kit to school. Put a toothbrush and toothpaste and a bottle of deodorant. If you feel that you are smelling (which i doubt), simply go and freshen up.

I truly believe that these nasty people are trying to upset you. If you feel that you smell, simply ask a teacher that you trust. They will tell you.

Answer 4

You need to go see a GP (general practioner). Sounds like you have a hormore or chemical imbalance which is causing the smell. If you are showing every day, changing your clothes and using deoderant, you should not smell, thus the imbalance scenario. It may be just a simple perscription that cures the problem. I know what your going through. I played football and lacrosse with a guy who had the same problem. As soon as he got out of the shower and dress to go go home, he stunk again.

See a GP. They will have a solution for you.

Answer 5

Well the only things I can suggest are drinking about 2 litres of water per day ( water dilutes the pollutants )and using an anti perspirant before you know you're going to be around people. Drinking heavily can make you make nasty body odour the next day, but if you're the age you say, this won't be a problem.

otherwise make sure your teeth are healthy and your breath is fresh.

If none of this works, ask someone you really trust if you smell (when you think you do) maybe your school mates attitudes stink.

If everything I've just said doesn't work, then go to a doctor. They know all sorts of good stuff.

Answer 6

if your the new kid, sad but true, your probably going to get picked on anyway, even though that sucks. once you hit puberty, your body is overloaded with hormones, which causes a lot of changes. first, go to the doctor and see if it is a medical condition. next, use an antibacterial soap, like dial, every morning when you take your shower. as for deodorant, i know secret makes one that is clinical strength, which is a step below a prescription. also, use spray deodorant on your feet.... i do it in the summer and it works wonders. find a nice perfume that works with your body chemistry and use it through out the day but, not too much.
lastly, go talk to you councilor at school, they may have some advice.

Answer 7

There is an excellent website as below specializing in this problem,and there are many on the internet-including a yahoo body odor group-you are not alone.The main culprits for causing odour are things like bodily infections,such as candida,leaky gut syndrome that can make the body smell of food and bowel waste.You are clean,so I guess the smell is coming through your skin.Try and cut out junk food ,garlic ,onions ,curry,and other foods that make most people smell a bit. I would also first see your doctor,maybe writing a letter in advance-he can do blood tests,and check for obvious hormone,infectious and malfunctions,that may be causing it.Smothering your body with baby oil may help a bit.
try-health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bodyodorgroup/
it may be worth looking into fish odour syndrome.

Answer 8

Get yourself an antiperspirant, your at the age when your body is changing. Its a bit haywire?
Keep up what you do hygiene wise .
Stop worrying.
Could you be bothered thinking about some-one else 24/7.
These people are not worth even your thoughts.
Could they be jealous,[bet your clothes are better quality]
Stop trying, if you are going to meet a "friend" you will.
Do you want to be popular. why?

I get people trying to come into my space and be a "Friend" now but I'm sure its easier to not bother.
Some people NEED Friends and some don't.
I tried but , not for me. Most take the pee in the end.
You will be OK concentrate on your school work and remember that's what your there for.

Answer 9

I really feel for you. Kids can be so cruel. It may be that they are making it up just to have someone to be mean too. Have you spoken to a parent or even a teacher about it? They would tell you the truth.
If you really do have this problem and you have tried deoderants (Right Guard is the strongest and works all day), then you should go to see your doctor because there could be a medical problem that could easily be sorted out.
I have a daughter about your age so I know how hard it can be at school. I hope things get sorted out for you and please try not to get stressed about it. :)

Answer 10

First off, you probably don't smell.
It might be people picking on you for no good reason since that's what losers do, it's all they know how to do.
You didn't say if you could detect an odour coming from you as you have only really mentioned other people saying that you smell, in which case you likely don't.
You should speak to someone and ask for their honest opinion and advice - ask someone who cares like a parent or friend.
I feel bad for you because I know what it's like to be picked on and alienated in school but you are not alone and if people persist in taunting you,it is a form of bullying, please speak to your parents - dont go through this alone.
I urge you not to give up on yourself.
xxx

Answer 11

You could have BO. If you don't wear deodorant, start using it. If you do use it already but it's not working, there are deodorants out there for people who have odor problems. Get the really strong stuff.

The most likely thing is that they are just a bunch of mean little kids who totally made it all up. Kids can be cruel and it sucks. If this is the case, you just have to know that it won't always be like this. Just know you're better than them.