is life really simple or is it designed to be constanly difficult so that we feel alive? everyone has it hard from time to time, but is there anyone out there who has the perfect day everyday? i mean besides losing people to the natural chime of life ending.
2007-04-12 07:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
life in itself isn't hard but the actions of those who walk through life with us is what can make it overwhelming at times. Many allow life to get them down and they shouldn't, Instead they need to learn to work with what life throws at you to enhance a better tomorrow. When we make an error we learn from it and move on.
2007-04-12 08:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your choices. In the beginning, yes, life can seem hard. Then you make choices, about friends, job, and keeping up with your family. Also, your diet is important. You need to pay attention to these things, instead of thinking things got tougher. Have you called or visited your parents recently? If you want to go it alone, seek the advice of a counselor, if life is really hard for you right now. Take a good look at your friends, and if they aren't going where you want to be, drop them, move to the next town.
Do you want just a job, right now? Some people find a partner to make life easier, although it can complicate things if it isn't the thing you really want right now, and they don't want the same things, (as in friends).
Sounds as if you are young, and looking for the right places to make some choices. Get a full time job, too. It helps make things nicer, and stay in touch with your family.
Try to have a perfect day or two.
2007-04-12 09:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I think about the possibility that someone is actually completely comfortable with themselves in almost every way, mentally emotionally and physically, to me that is perfection - being comfortable with yourself so purely and to never question your worth. Maybe those girls at your school really are completely happy inside, but I highly doubt it. Sure people have problems but a big majority of those problems are with themselves. When people don't have problems with who they are, I find that to be the greatest gift of all. Unfortunately I do not have this gift haha and that is why It would be so special to me. To answer your question, I think people are just better at hiding it but I'm sure there are a few rare ones out there that are truly content with their lives. And of course I wish I could be someone else sometimes. A lot of times, actually.
2016-04-01 11:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most everything in our lives, we dwell on the hard or unpleasant stuff and take for granted the good/wonderful stuff. I've seen and done an awful lot of hard to watch, handle stuff but in balance. I wouldn't be surprised if my life has been about 93% great. Certainly alot of fun in there with the bad. Generally my life is pretty spanky. Hang in there,it gets better especially when you get a little older and dump the crap that loads your life down and enjoy the good stuff.
2007-04-12 09:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ret. Sgt. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that life goes in waves, difficult to the percieved easy. I think that anyone claiming to have a perfect day everyday would be on drugs. If you are in a down part you just have to know and assume that the better part will be coming.
2007-04-12 08:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by DG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe an amoeba's life is simple, but for those of us with brains and muscles, exercise (ergo difficulty) has to be the norm to keep them in shape. Learning to overcome the difficulty makes the process much easier and rewarding.
2007-04-12 08:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ben 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Up to people thing may be some one says life really hard but the other easy . I think is according some one face the life
2007-04-12 07:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by sastro 5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Genesis 3:17-19
Cursed is the ground because of you; in toil you shall eat of it all the days of your life. Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you; and you shall eat the plants of the field; by the sweat of your face you shall eat bread, till you return to the ground, because from it you were taken; for you are dust and to dust you shall return.
So anyway, you aren't the first to ask this question...this verse is at least 4000 years old. The book of Job is even older. The feeling is that something is just not right with the world and with people in general. We are separated from God.
2007-04-12 07:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Imagine, life is like a virtual gaming space. If it's to easy the game is not fun and you do not feel a sense of accomplishment and joy when you've conquered something hard.
If it's to easy we loose interest pretty fast.
So just keep in mind it's a game. If was created by God or by ourselves makes no difference. The game is to be played. And remember it isn't life or death until it really is life or death. Everything else can be overcome.
2007-04-12 07:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Leal 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Every day I am more convinced that it is all in your head.
We have much more power over our lives that we are brought up to believe. Which is not to say that we will never experience hard times or extreme emotions, but we must let them just flow through us, then let them go.
Did I just spew out New Agey nonsense or did that help??
2007-04-12 07:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Peace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋