Is it possible???

Question

My cousin is 17 years old and she really want a baby. But her boyfriend don't want any children right now. She said they had protected sex and he used a condom. She said he throw the condom in the tolet and he fogot to flush the tolet. She said she took the condom out the tolet and rub it all up inside of her and she wanted to no if its possible she can get pregnant like that. She said plz dont judge her.

Answer 1

How do you expect us not to judge that horrendous behavior? She should be ashamed. Yeah he is not ready to have kids. Well he must be the smart one. He knows he is too young and not ready. Poor guy I feel so sorry for him. Nothing like dating a "trapper"

Answer 2

We are not here to judge her but what she is trying to do is wrong you can´t force someone to have a child if they don´t want to.
I think it´s very unlikely that she can be pregnant from rubbing the condom inside her.

Answer 3

I think its unlikely she got pregant that way .More likely it was a small hol;e in the condom or even one time of pulling out .Even possible a condom broke .Sounds like he doese not want to take any responsibilty .If I were her I would wait till IU was a few years older so she can enjoy her youth.

Answer 4

No she will not get pregnant in this manner. However, she is in need of some help. No one at 17 should want to have a baby. She should want to graduate high school, go to college, have a life of her own before she has a baby.

Answer 5

Seriously, you might be getting in the middle of things, but you need to tell her boyfriend that she did that so he remembers to flush the condom next time. Tell him cause she's WAY too immature to be doing stuff like that, expecially to have a child.

Answer 6

Very, very unlikely.

I know she asked for us not to judge her but your cousin REALLY needs to see a good therapist. At 17, she should be worried about prom or finding a good part time job or getting into college - not wanting a baby.

She has PLENTY of time to have children. Having them when you are too young and uneducated is not going to be good for her or for them. If she truly wants to raise good, productive children, she should wait until she has the resources to devote to their care and upbringing. She won't have those resources unless she gets more education or job training. Please, PLEASE, PLEASE tell her to stop trying to trap this guy through dishonest means. He won't want to stay with her if he finds out what she's doing.

And PLEASE tell her to wait. Tell her to give it four years (four years goes by increadibly fast) and if she still wants to have children she should be in a better position to do so.

Best of luck!
Peace,
Jenn

Answer 7

The temp drop from the cold water would have most likely killed the sperm. The spermaside (sp?) would have also killed a lot of them. However, it is still possible for her to get pregnant though highly, highly unlikely

Answer 8

LOL... It is more likely she will give herself an infection doing that!! Please don't rub your insides with toilet water. It is not a good idea. Getting pregnant at 17 isn't too smart either.. trust me.. I did it (by accident). Good luck

Answer 9

There is a slight chance, but it is doubtful. It would have to travel to her uterus. I would talk to her about it though. If she doesn't realize that it is not fair to do that to him you might want to let the guy know. If he doesn't want kids and she does that behind his back, he has a right to know.

Answer 10

well in first place yes she may have the chance to get preg. but that is still wrong if you think about it like you said her boyfriend dont want a kid and if she does get preg. he is going to get pissed at her and have a hard tim trying to trust her agian and may not believe it is his.....