I know that love and hate are equal opposites... identical in all but direction.... but it still weirds me out sometimes that I end up getting so hateful that it almost crosses the border.
For instance.... Charlotte Church... that vile little slag. I hated her when she was pretending purity and innocence (and her voice was never that impressive)... and I still hated her when she turned tail and revealed the monster she really was...
Yet sometimes for some unthinkable reason I still want to fvck her brains out.... and I know it is because I hate everything about her.
I suppose this is what I get for still having emotions of any potency. I know that emotions only lead to trouble but some are hard to let go of.
[Excuse the crudeness of my questioning.]
2007-04-12 05:22:18 · 12 answers · asked by Nihilist Templar 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hate comes with a lot of passion behind it. But so does love.
I can see you thinking that this passion that drives your hate is also affecting you sexually. It's not strange at all.
2007-04-12 05:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by James A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Got news for you, pal -- the opposite of love is NOT hate. The opposite of love is indifference. If you hate someone you still care enough about them to hate them, but if you simply don't care then there's no room in your mind or your heart for such a person. So what you're feeling is normal. P.S.: I feel the same way about Britney Spears.
2007-04-12 05:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by sarge927 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A strong hatred can unleash a desire to sexually overpower, and has more to do with the desire for power than the desire for sex. This is part of the basis for the dysfunction that is called rape, which is not to say you are a rapist, only that you have one element present in you that if not adressed in a healthy way will make it easier for you to do that under certain circumstances. A healthy dose of "what do I care/no skin off my nose" may help...unless she reminds you of someone, in which case it is that person with whom you need to find healing.
2007-04-12 05:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by AHA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The highest point of Love is Hate and the highest point of Hate is Love! Do you know that!
You hate her so much because you love her and thas why yhou want to shag her, not to love her.
All the best!/
2007-04-15 01:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending on your age, it is natural to want to shag any girl you see. So don't feel strange about it unless you fantasize hurting or forcing the girl into sex to punish her.
2007-04-12 05:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a thin line between love and hate...that being said, i wonder if you have these thoughts as your way of punishing the people you"hate" when they don't do what you think they should do. eg...you hated charlotte church, pure and innocent. and you hate her for being the opposite...it doesn't make sense...
2007-04-12 05:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i have a few exes that I despise, that i'd still screw the heck out of.
2007-04-12 05:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course, everybody has had an anger bang, dont feel bad it's natural.
2007-04-12 05:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your just a horny boy,
2007-04-13 01:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by ஐKatஐ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very strange.
2007-04-12 05:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋