After 22 years of marriage, my husband finally decides to touch my vagina. All of these years it's been like something horrible to him, but in my mind a desire. Usually, we do our thing, he cums, I don't and oh well, it's over. I'm left wanting more or at least wanting to feel satisfied, but it's all over too quickly. Then a couple nights ago, he just starts everything by touching and stimulating, which I liked and wanted, but .... yesterday I couldn't even look him in the face. I'm actually embarrassed. I don't want to feel embarrassed ...... and I shouldn't, but I do. I don't want to bring it up or anything, because he might decide to not do it again and I really liked it. I need some advise. Thank you.
2007-04-12 03:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your embarrassed because you now realize what you've been missing for so long feels better than you anticipated. It's a wave – ride it out. Touching and stimulation are wonderful, but if he just got to it, start working the oral so you don't have to wait another 22 years. Don't discount it if you've never tried it. Done right, it will put you into 7th heaven.
Welcum him to the "real man's club" for me. Oral is my moral :)
2007-04-13 06:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
22 years? No wonder your embarrassed you don't know what to think. Also absolutly no communication, which makes you guys more strangers then friends. Might almost feel like being molested really, only because you wouldn't know how to feel. Your only choose is to do what you've neglect'd to do all along, talk to him about it. If not your in a horriable situation, sorry, but its going to be natural to feel horriable.... or at the very least embarrassed. I mean come on your bursting with feelings and emotions over this new thing that came into the relationship and now you can't even talk to him about it, sucky!
2007-04-12 11:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang..its about time..you get aroused dont you think..Id lay back and enjoy it the embarrasement will eventually subside and you can talka bout it..22 years of marriage and yall dont talk in bed wow! This is a new day a coming now..have fun..life is way short!
2007-04-16 08:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by pipeliner30ft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 years of marriage, and only now you have such intimate sex? i thought that was when you were just married and stuff. in my opinion, this is the age to have a family and be more family-oriented. my opinion.
2007-04-15 05:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by girlnumberone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋