Other men make comments to me about my husband (ex. You need to get your eyes checked, telling my son he should be glad he looks more like me). I am very attracted to my husband and hate these wisecracks from other men. They never say them to him directly. They may think they are being funny, but I feel defensive when they make these comments.
2007-04-12 03:03:57 · 20 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know. But wanted to say I am proud of you for wanting to stick up for him. Most wives, my five exs anyway, would just chime in and think it was funny.
2007-04-12 03:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by asmikeocsit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that these other men may just be jealous of your husband. Maybe they have a thing for you or something. The best way to handle this would be to say something like " well thats funny Im very attracted to him." Or just be the better person and blow it off completely while limiting your conversations with these other men
2007-04-12 03:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to your husband and tell him what is going and like that he can put a stop to it or another way is for you to just ignore it and get away from those guys that are making the comments. I kinda have the same situation but when the guys are making the comments my husband is their. My husband just sees it as a joke but when I hear them talk trash about my him all I want to do is punch the $hit of all of those a$s holes. Good Luck and God Bless to you and your loved ones... :o)
2007-04-12 03:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by mysteryousmtz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell these other men, "It's for that reason that he is at my side and you are not," and then let them know why your husband is the greatest man in the world and why you have a better family than these insignificant men ever will.
Obviously these men are shallow and jealous and are unable to comprehend the definition of true love.
Good luck Casey308!
2007-04-12 03:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What other men? Are these "friends" of his? I think I would respond with something like..."well, that was just down right rude!" and then walk away and not talk to the person again until I got an apology especially since your son has been involved in some of this. It would be a good lesson for him if he was able to witness you defending his father.
2007-04-12 03:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by mental 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell them that i really don't appreciate their rude comments and if they are going to say them they should just not talk to you. i am sure your husband wouldnt appreciate the comments and the fact that you dont say anything. imagine if the situation was reversed. what would you do if he didnt stick up for you? i can't believe people are that rude, but you should not let it continue. or when they say bad things just come back with something you like about your husband. they are obviously just jealous if they feel the need to make cracks about it all the time.
2007-04-12 03:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be just as ignorant as they are by simply implying it wasn't his looks, but rather what he's packing that keeps you happy, or you can just tell them to shut up. It sounds like they are just doing what guys do. My husbands friends say the same thing to me. I just smile coyly and look down. They get the message and it shuts them up until the next time I see them anyway. It's just boys being boys.
2007-04-12 03:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's perplexing to assert with out interior the genuine difficulty. some human beings do in comparison to plenty talk some like it .(truthfully i'm the 2nd style) . each and every so often the guy we talk would be not in a sturdy temper. So relies upon on the guy we affiliate with we are able to might desire to administration ourself. Thats how we get some as pals and a few not. so which you will ward off mixing with human beings too plenty who would not tournament your character. if your husband rejoice with your talkative character why concern. that's what concerns maximum. In circumstances the place you will might desire to pass with diverse style of folk you are able to desire to administration yourselt to ward off any gruesome occurance. Are all of us not sturdy actors? Which we do from very small age. (Like after doing a mistake seems so harmless, as quickly as we would like some ingredient to verify those with a advert temper)
2016-10-21 22:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that the person saying it is hitting on you so tell that person that remarks are like a holes every one has one and some don't know how to keep them to them self .Looks is not what is important in a person it is what is in the heart that counts and to me the person that says something bad to you about your spout or lover or even bad about yourself don't have a heart and is going to live a very sad life. Tell that person to please reconsider what they are saying to you and think before they say it or just not talk to you at all.
2007-04-12 03:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by steveky54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just jealous that they cant have you so they bash your husband. If they bother you that much you should say something to them. Dont let them think they can be too friendly with you and disrespect your husband. I'm sure he would stick up for you ?
Dont take their sh!t..
2007-04-12 03:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have no manners, just flat out rude. i believe i would reply with a kind, loving smile & say i love him so much. respond with positive responses about your husband ie: great father, loving husband, wonderful lover ect... they will get the hint. and if they dont then tell them their just jealous because they wish they could be half the man he is.good luck
2007-04-12 03:11:40 · answer #11 · answered by tire chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋