When the boy left her without saying anything and the girl suffers from the lack of their relationship very much..
2007-04-12 02:48:54 · 31 answers · asked by generica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Improve yourself, move on with your life and be the girl you always wanted to be.
2007-04-12 02:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by PocahontasPR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear:What is the best way to punish the ex-boyfriend ?
Ignored! Head held up right, do things, go out, keep your stuff together...and let it go. No words from him whom had many to speak & just left! Why should he have your words. Ignore him! Put your pain away and keep going.
By the way, how old are you? and are you sure your looking for pushiment or revenge? Don't play your self. Take your place. Are you God or the Law? That is not for you to do...life will do its thing. So, please go on and pack a bad of negative feelings and bury deep.
God bless you...me
from Patillas, PR
2007-04-12 03:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to punish him severely, be the one that is the most mature about the breakup, Showing him or telling him that you still love him or hate him is not the best way to go about this. Simply just go about your business like he never existed, do not talk to him or his friends again. Start talking to other boys and becoming their friends, you don't have to date anyone, but just being the most mature person will make him feel more pain than any words could ever say.
2007-04-12 03:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is simply to move on with your life. Don't waste time thinking about how to get back? If he left you without saying anything, I personally think he doesn't deserve your mind time. I know you are hurting from the absence of this relationship, but find other positive ways to vent your anger, like an outlet, such as painting, drawing, or reading.
2007-04-12 02:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do anything! Just be a good girl. Ive been there. I actually was stalked by a guy that started getting pretty bad. I about had to file a restraining order on him.
The best way to get back at him is to go on with your life and be happy. Prove to him that you don't need him to live.
2007-04-12 02:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best way to punish him. Go on without him. Find love again; think of him as that sickness you once had that you are now cured of. If you (she) tries to get back at him, he'll just be flattered and she (you) will only hurt more.
2007-04-12 02:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel you must punish you ex, you are the one with a problem. Get something going on in your life . people that dwell in the past are not thinking healthy. Move on!
2007-04-12 02:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by reinformer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you'd do better to help the girl learn to be happy with her life, as it is - to love herself & her life whether she's got a boyfriend or not.
2007-04-12 03:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By my experience, be overly nice to him! I know it tears me up inside when my cheating ex wife acts like I'm her best friend and treats me too nice! She even uses a nicey nice tone of voice that in my twelve years that I've known her, she never used! Man it tears me up! So take it from me, niceness is a killer!!!! - JK
2007-04-12 03:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to punish your ex is to live you life and be happy. He will be really pissed to see you so happy without him.
2007-04-12 02:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it hurts when he leaves like that, but being that they are not married he doesn't honestly have to give a reason. Yes she does deserves to know why.
But why punish him??? Remember 2 wrongs don't make a right.
2007-04-12 02:52:53 · answer #11 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋