Since the day you got married, has all the romance gone away?? And do you just feel like and old married unhappy couple who is just carrying on?
2007-04-12 02:23:06 · 7 answers · asked by Purplemarshmellow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I sure hope you are not married!!!! A relationship is a two way street and even thoughts of cheating on your wife is wrong. A woman marries for love, trust, and most men just marry for god knows why. And if you probably had a little romance in you then it would never be "an old married unhappy couple carrying on," cause the more you are with someone the more you love, honor and trust that person. My husband is my best friend, and everyday of every year we are together the better our relationship is.
2007-04-12 05:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by rachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't. We've been married for 2+ years, and before I'd ever cheat, I'd leave. Not that I am even remotely interested in leaving, much less cheating.
Before we got married, we dated for 2.5 years, and were friends for 5 years before that. So yes, the "romance" has worn a little thin. But romance - and a romantic marriage - take continuous hard work and commitment from both parties.
2007-04-12 09:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on my wife in 11 years of marriage and we have been together longer than that. There is a reason I took a vow to my woman. The vow didn't include "for better or worse, unless I get horny and can't think for myself". If for any thing else, my children deserve a real role model not someone who they WILL one day discover cheated on their mother. I have to much self respect.
2007-04-12 09:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
twice
20 years
I told her though, so maybe not even considered cheating
yup, the romance has gone away, maybe 2% left
I don't just feel like it, I AM CERTAIN we are an old married couple just going through the motions. I'm too lazy to leave, she is too lazy to kick me out.
2007-04-12 09:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel like she has given up on me after 20 yrs. she keeps saying her needs have changed but mine have not and i need some....
2007-04-12 14:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my EX HUSBAND cheated, (note the EX)... we were married 16 years, i was the good faithful trophy wife... he BEGS to come back now... ha! idiot!
2007-04-12 09:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dont even right your wrong i would have dumped you as fast as you came \\\\ Did you tell her
2007-04-12 09:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Punkgirl16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋