He came to my school in Feb. I've never done anything with this guy, he did have me meet his grandmother. He wanted me to meet her. He's very nice he doesn't smoke, or drink or do drugs. What do you think? He's never asked me to do the "deed" or even mentioned it. MY mother said I can have a boyfriend at school, but that's it. She also said be myself, but always be a lady. Any other adivce? (Please no rude comments, serious answers to help me only)
2007-04-12 02:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by jcanime@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Brittany it's very Bad advice to tell someone to have sex before they are married. This child is a minor for one and second she needs to wait till she's married! (just in case they die is not a good reason) No one should pressure you for sex ever. If he loves you he will wait. This guy should not tell you what to wear, or who to speak to or who to be friends with, what to do or not to do. He should not bully, yell or intimidate you at all. Don't date a guy who wants to borrow money, he will be borrowing it all the time. Never do the deed until you're married !
2007-04-12 02:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, he sounds like a great guy. And he shouldn't be asking you to do the deed because you've only known each other for two months. It sounds as if your mom gave you great advice; always be a lady and respect yourself. Don't do anything that you normally wouldn't do just for his gratification.
2007-04-12 09:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is wonderful that you have found your first love. It will more than likely not be your last as you are young and most people date a few people before they end up with Mr./Mrs. right and marry them.
Your mother is right...be yourself and "always" be a lady.
If someone falls in love with you, you want to be yourself so you are who they are truly falling in love with.
Good luck with this relationship...be careful and hopefully you will save yourself for the man you marry.
be cool...
2007-04-12 09:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mom, she gave you great advise. You haven't known him for that long a time and you may think you are in-love. I was 20 yes 20 when I lost my virginity and 2 months later I broke up with him because I realized I wasn't in-love. So just be careful...and if you do decide to go ahead with it...USE PROTECTION!
2007-04-12 12:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Latina26 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm glad your new boyfriend says you're beautiful and sweet and that he loves you*...but how long have you and him been 'dating'? You said he came to your school in Feb...is that when you met him? If so..how can he "love' you..?? Just take it slow and don't get in over your head. Get to know him more, his likes, and dislikes...sports?music?cars?....
Best Wishes* and enjoy your new relationship*
2007-04-12 09:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is very nice i gave it up to a guy when i was 14 just because he told me he loved me and now he is dead and thats messed up go fore the one you love before they go i did
2007-04-12 09:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Punkgirl16 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋