is it a good idea to have a intimate relationships..?

Question

is it good to have a intimate relationship or live in relationship with girls before marriage,

i appreciate female advice for the same..

Answer 1

THOUGH IN INDIAN SOCIETY THEY DO NOT LIKE THE RELATIONSHIP BEFORE MARRIAGE. IT IS ALSO NOT FARE TO HAVE RELATIONSHIP WITH GIRL BEFORE THE MARRIAGE.

Answer 2

That’s a good one... Some say yes and some say no.

A number of marriages have worked out perfectly fine who didn’t know much about their partner. For example pre-arranged marriages, religion beliefs and so on... and some people just like the excitement of it.. not knowing what you are in for. And learning to appreciate and love someone fully.

Yet it’s also important to know if this is the kind of person you can live with for the rest of your live. You really don’t know a person fully until you see all aspects of how they live, do things, communicate and so forth. A number of people move in together only because they feel it’s the next step.... when that shouldn’t be the reason why. Make sure it’s someone you really want to be with. Nothing worse then misleading someone.

Experience too is another that is important... what has happened to you in the past will help you better in the future. Some people are just hard or impossible to live with... They may seem dam near perfect but when you move in... Habits and how things are done... could cause issues. Simple things like cleaning become HUGE problems.

Answer 3

Speaking as a female, my mother told me to always live together before getting married. And I don't mean for a month or two. At least 6 months, preferably a year. By then, any 'weekend' behavior will stop. You'll see if the other person leaves wet towels on the floor, or the cap off the toothpaste. Will they do their fair share of chores or expect the other person to do it all? And this is a two way street, don't forget.

A good idea would be to have a co-habitation agreement done up before hand, though. It's kind of like a pre-nup. Just in case you decide to end the relationship, anything bought or received as a couple will need to be decided upon, any kids that come out of this, any pets, et cetra.

Answer 4

Now days with the divorce rate being so high, I say go for it. Give it a test drive as they say. Divorce is expensive, messy, and hurtful to all involved. By living together before you say I DO, you will know that you can get along in every way, or that you are both willing to compromise. If you just can't work out any problems that arise you can just break up and not have to deal with a divorce.

Answer 5

You can get intimate with the girl you love and would like to take the relationship to the next level.

Answer 6

If you aren't restricted by any religious beliefs then it's an absolute 'must do' mate. It's the only way to grow and learn how to eventually be an honest, loving and caring 'life-partner'. The idea is by the time you're ready to commit, you should've done all your 'do's' and 'don'ts, and in turn, learnt a few of the 'must do's'. Alternatively, you could find yourself 'awakening' to 'lifes joys' amidst the marriage, which doesn't always guarantee positive outcomes.

Answer 7

I don't think it's good. Because it can cause you to base your relationship on sex, instead of focusing on building the relationship. Also your virginity is a precious thing, and when you give that away, you can't get it back.

I believe that God created sex to be kept within the bonds of marriage, not before or outside of marriage. So wait till your married.

Answer 8

I say yes, but I'm sure most people will say no. I guess I'm of the "new age" even though I'm 42 but I would much rather see people live together to ensure it's what they really want, then to get married and have to get divorced a few years later. My friend is going through this now, realizing she and her husband aren't compatible at all!

Answer 9

I think it really depends on the situation and the maturity of the people involved. You would have to be up front on what you expect out of the relationship. Good luck

Answer 10

I don't think it's a good idea to have her rush and move in, but yes I think you need to see how things are going to work out. I moved in with my ex, and things were great...at first. We were just constantly in eachothers way. I would try to make dinner and he would have to stand in the spots I need to get, or he was working on building something and I would be sitting on the board he needed. But I think if you are together for just about 24 hours a day and get to see EXACTLY how the other person reacts to you doing your normal routine and how they do theirs, that you might either find it's ok to want to stay with that person forver or you might find you really just can't stand them. It will make or break you....

Answer 11

By society rules, it is not appropriate in many countries or religion. You could still be in relationship but just don't live together till you are married.