Don't get me wrong, I find her very attractive. She's slim and beautiful. Maybe her slimness has something to do with it, I don't know. Or is it because I really care about her and don't regard her as just a sex object. I don't know. Any expert suggestions?
By the way, we've been together for three years.
2007-04-12 01:47:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1/. It's interesting women that say they'd never let a bloke near their 'butt' cos' it hurts etc, etc - how the hell would they know?
2/. I don't quite know why you're looking for some meaning from not having done 'that'? You're not trying to conjure up the 'Dutch' to ask her are ya? :)
3/. Please give the points to Allison cos' I just about fell off my chair crackin(no pun intended...) up at her thoughts. LOL
4/. Hell I've been with my Queen for four years now, we're blissfully married, have a fairly 'funky sex life', 'will' be together til' the day I die and I can tell you 'I' aint never gettin' any 'booty action'....no worries :)
2007-04-12 03:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Talented Samo' 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u discuss this with her ?
Everyone can tell u what 2 do, but at the end of the day she has to make the ultimate decision.
Go on, dont be scared - she probably has been thinking about it for years & has not plucked up the courage 2 ask you.
Good luck & enjoy each others company !!
2007-04-12 08:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't done it because you haven't done it. It really doesn't mean anything about how you feel about her. You can always ask her if she wanted to try it, experiment. Maybe she'll be all for it. Use lots of lube though if you do try and go slow. Ask her about anal play using your finger (with lube of course). Some women have extreme orgasms when penetrated that way and using toy or self stimulation on their clitoris. I know my wife does even though we haven't done it alot.
Like I said, just because you haven't done it, doesn't have anything to do with how you feel about her.
2007-04-12 12:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by zoso0729 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait wait!! WAIT!
You "just noticed"??? HUH????
Have you been in a coma? Hypnotized until recently? Maybe you don't like it? Maybe she refused to do it and you just forgot? Maybe because she's slim it'd be like doing it with a BOY? Or she'll........break apart? Spill.
2007-04-12 09:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by alison k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with the way nature intended?
2007-04-12 09:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by SUSIE 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't let anyone near my butt, its gross and painful and men don't realize, it can be dangerous as well.
2007-04-12 08:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by jen 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You love her so much so you want to do it everywhere. You wouldn't reject it if she asked you to do it in her nose because you love her.
2007-04-12 08:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by DanseMacabre 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it means you two haven't been sexually adventurous in that manner. If you want it, ask for it.
2007-04-12 08:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
most women dont like anal sex
it hurts!
dont try it
2007-04-12 08:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋