I am a newly married bengali girl. How do I make my husband happy in bed?
I was a virg*in till marriage and do not have any skill in this aspect. My husband has expressed that I am not 'responsive' or 'exciting' in bed....what am i supposed to do?
I let him do whatever he desires to me and never refuse him. I also try to accomodate all his desire. What does he expect?
At the same time, i am scared that if I act too 'dirty' - he will think 'bad' of me.
Ladies, please help me.
2007-04-12 01:07:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He wants to 'eat me out'. What does that mean? Should i say yes?
2007-04-12 01:37:26 · update #1
(a) Do not passively engage in sex i.e. don't just let your hubby do what ever he wants. Be pro-active and lead him to positions and angels that gives you most pleasure. Guys like that.
(b) Change positions and try different positions. Guys love it, when they master different positions and can give pleasure to his partner.
(c) Some times, be on top. Let him relax and lie back, while you lead from the top.
(d) When you feel like it having sex, hint it to your hubby, as oppose to let him ask for it every time.
(e) "Eating you out" = Oral sex, where your hubby will use his tongue. This will be very exciting and very pleasurable for you. Go ahead. Apply some honey down there to make it more exciting.
2007-04-14 17:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you guys role play? Try it...
If you want to keep your innocent look then just keep the freaky stuff in the bed room. Like the songs says. "A lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets."
If you were a virgin till marriage then he should understand that you are not skilled. Work with him. Let him be the teacher and you can be the student. "wink wink" (There is your idea for role play).
2007-04-12 08:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by carmel_gurlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching ****. that would get u in the mood for foreplay. while making love, explore, tease, caress his whole body til u hit the right spot then focuss on it. dont be afraid to ask what he likes and dnt be afraid to let him know that ur enjoying too. mourn a little.(most guys like that) and if u cant get orgasm , fake it. u guys are married so there is no such thing as dirty sex anymore. think of it as an obligation with an added pleasure. goodluck
2007-04-12 08:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by mich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 months back you posted this question here in this forum when you admitted of physical relationship with your boyfriend now you say you were virgin at the time of marriage. Do you think people here are fools ? Ex Boyfriend troubles?
I am 27 F and live in India. I am going to get married (arranged) soon but have a problem on hand.
My Ex Boyfriend is very aggressive and jealous. I have broken up with him for over 2 months but he still calls me, says he wants to marry me etc. He went and spoke to my fiance that he loves me and was in a relationship etc. Fortunately my fiance brushed him off.
However I am worried as I had physical relations with my Ex BF for over a year and if he reveals this fact to my fiance - the marriage will be off. My fiance believes that I am a virgin. Though he has not threatened to do anything like this, alarms in my mind keep going off.
What should I do?
How can I get him off my back? Should I ask for all the Pics, clothes I had left at his place or let it go? The pics are decent and can be passed off as "friend pics" . Among clothes, there are some night clothes and lingerie (however they can not be linked to me)
9 months ago
2007-04-12 09:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go and get some love making books and study.You can learn a lot from book like , The art of making love. How to please your mate. How to make him climb the walls and so on. You also need to figuare out what it is that you like then act on it. Strip for him spice it up. Most man like a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed.
Have fun and good luck.
2007-04-12 08:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget evrything and get out of the inhibitions. Sexual acts are basically instincts. Follow that. Sex is not dirty; it is exotic and pure, provided you are doing it in an ethical manner and in your case it is ethical, legal and totally moral. You must say 'yes' to be eaten by him. Ask him what he desires and do not control yourself either. He will not think that you are bad.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-04-12 11:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear get down and get dirty show him what you got.. don't hold back. let him have it all this way you get pleased as well. the bedroom is a place to let it all hang out and try new and kinky things tell him your desires and work on it together it takes time to get in a groove when your first married, as years pass you kearn together in the sex department. my husband and i are in our middle 40's and still try different stuff if we don't like it we move on to the next adventure..
2007-04-12 08:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by raven1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See Devika dont open this personal question on internet , no one give u proper suggestion one man can give u answer of this problem and the man is ur own husband , have deep talk with ur husband and ask him what he want from u and tell what u are expecting from him sorry that i am man i think u should have talk with HUSBAND only and no one else
2007-04-12 12:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jitesh J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
The only way to find out what he likes is to ask him. Let him tell you what he want's and what he likes, or show you.. You wrote "I let him do whatever he desires to me" but hello girl, where are your feelings? Make him clear what you like and what you don't like and give him some feedback...
Good luck!
2007-04-12 08:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Devika feel free and enjoy with ur hubby. Refer some sex books, or moves to learn some tricks.
Good luck
2007-04-12 09:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ashok P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋