Hi, i have a really good friend and she is in a band.
She is quite good but the other 2 bring her down.
She thinks she is great and people tell her that she is just to be nice.
Should i tell her that she is rubbish?
I really don't want to crush her dreams but i really don't want to see her get hurt.
She thinks she is brilliant but really, she's crap.
Help!
I don't want to lie to her.
2007-04-12 00:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Chelsea G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't lie and just tell her the truth! :)
2007-04-12 03:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be supportive of her dreams and if she asks you what you really think then tell her the truth, who knows some people make it that cant sing. it happens all the time.
Good Luck!!!
2007-04-12 00:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then dont lie. Friends tell each other things dont matter how bad or good it may be, but if you are a real friend then tell her in such away that it wouldnot hurt her.TELL HER BY HERSELF.
2007-04-12 01:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Shaquan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself, if you want her friendship.. She will hear it from someone else soon enough!! Just be a good friend when her dreams are shattered.
2007-04-12 00:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is tell her that she is doing fine. But what would make her even better is taking singing lessons. I'm sure that she is fine.
2007-04-12 00:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Asheera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her gently then if she doesn't listen then u record her voice and show her how terrible she is
u have to be harsh with ur friends at times don't be afraid to tell her how it is
hope it helps
brainznot_love
rachna
2007-04-12 00:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by kittycat3112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. if she doesn't believe you then let her listen.
2007-04-12 04:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might be crap but she has to like wat she hears and if she lyks it well good 4 her. she trys she failes so wat either u can help her or u can just leave her the way she is if shes happy well if she is good 4 her!!
hope dis helps
2007-04-12 00:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by cathleen e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can u do? why judge her
2007-04-12 00:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Neoza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋