2007-04-12 00:20:34 · 12 answers · asked by T-Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This hasn't happened to me but just thought about it.
2007-04-12 00:33:32 · update #1
You have to be unhappy with your marriage and in "looking" mode if you just happen to run across a "soul mate". I really don't believe in soul-mates either. I don't believe in "one true love" either. I think we could fall in love and have a number of successful relationships with any number of people. But if you have chosen, and you're happy, why would you even be open to meeting someone else or looking for a soul mate? Doesn't make sense. At any rate, this was an excellent question, thanks. Godloveya.
2007-04-12 00:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in soul mates either. It always makes me laugh when I hear things like some married person meeting their soul mate and cheating. Like, come on! It's just a ploy on romantac cliches in an attempt to find an excuse to cheat.
2007-04-12 07:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your soul mate isn't one of the billions of people you could be with out there walking around.
Someone _becomes_ your soul mate because you build a life together with them.
2007-04-12 08:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A happily married person does not go looking for their soul mate. They're content with who they're with. If they claim to have found their soul mate in someone else, they have cheating on their mind and want to justify that.
2007-04-12 08:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as a instant soulmate. A soulamte is defined by time together not by feelings. Love is not a feeling, love is a noun it implies doing something for that other person, not expecting something in return, but because you want to. You have the urge to do a thing for your partner which does not necessarily require rationale or explanation it just happens.
2007-04-12 08:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally do believe in soul mates. I also believe that just because you believe youve met your soul mate that your supposed to leave the person you made solemn vows too.
2007-04-12 07:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing as a soul mate. That is a useless trendy word and obviously for you another reason to duck out of your commitment.
2007-04-12 07:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe "soul mate" is a term made up by adolescent, romantic girls to describe what their personal Prince Charming might be. It's frequently used by grown women as an excuse for cheating and leaving their husbands, as in "I've found my TRUE SOULMATE, so I'm leaving. Destiny brought us together..." Bunch of BS.
2007-04-12 07:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Very hard to answer .... why you married someone that's not who you really love ? , you know ... love is an attitude ...too .
So ; that would be a real touchy issue ,but you can choose to
love your wife and have your soul mate as best friend ...
2007-04-12 07:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by robertman30s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, cause you should take your vows seriously enough that if your soul mate did come around, just be happy to know it but be happier where you are currently.
2007-04-12 07:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋