is there very many guys that dont just want to get into the girls pants?

Question

like just a nice guy who likes you for you and not what you can do for him sexually

Answer 1

Yes, the real question is would you know them if you found them? Secert: Look at a guys purpose, if he tells you the only reason he is living life is :I don't know, for drugs and puss, I want to make lots of money, I don't care, I'm lost, or who cares. Then leave them alone... there not going to see past whats between your legs... now if they say something more compelling, like: To be the best person I can for the people I care about, To hopfully figure out what the big secert is here without being distrated by any of the pretty lights, To find not only find someone who loves me for me, but to form a family that make me feel like I've accomplish something in my life outside what I've done for myself. Things like are good to hear from a person about why there still living there life. Look to that and you'll know real good what kind of person your dealing with. Just don't get caught up by game, such as: To love you forever, To have a wonderful women I can worhship for the rest of my life, etc... things like that are not true, it takes more then that to live a life.... just be careful and you remember to like at that purpose and you'll find some were that isn't the sole motivater. Also if there true to there purpose, no matter what you do to them, that purpose well keep them strait and you can always count on them to fellow it. Use to be religion did a good job of this, but don't trust that in this day and age....