Men like me for about a week and then dissapear for no reason!?
Why do men act so crazy about me for about a week .. I am a pretty girl .. I have a good attitude .. they call me like crazy .. say they love me than dissapear .. why do men do this ?????
kerrberr
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yes i guess i am crazy .. i meet them at the bar .. they are good looking and rich but sex is never on the first date .. they always call me like crazy than dump me with no reason to give me .. no drama or pushing from me .. do i need to get more attached and call them more
I seldom call them and when they dont call anymore do I call them to let them know i am interested or let them go?
2007-04-11 16:07:33 · 12 answers · asked by curiousanswer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Youre not fullfilling something for these guys.. or these guys have other women.. and if a guy dont call you anymore let him go for sure.. it just means he is with another chick..
but what is it your not fullfilling? maybe it is sex? if you meet guys at a bar.. thats one thing that is on there mind.. so try looking somewhere else.. such as.. a coffee shop.. go enjoy some coffee and do some reading with an eye open for men.. coffee shops are huge for meeting people.. and they are normaly more sophisticated group of guys.. also check the local bookstore.. normaly they have some coffee and chairs to enjoy a nice book.. get something that you want and try to find a guy reading a big book or a mens health mag. and find a question to ask.. if that doesnt turn into a convo.. then try someone else.. dont be obvious just be a tease but when they come back for a second talk.. it means there interested in you.. i bet you will still get the jerks here but you are for sure to enhance your number is good men around you...
But what if its not the men? what if its you? well we have to find that out... the other thing it could be is.. maybe you are sending them a signal that says.. im not as interested in you as you are in me.. of course your not meaning to do this but it can happen.. do you call them? email them? contact them when there are not around? of course dont do this everyday but after a little while contact them some how show them you miss them.. if they dont return your call, email then thats on them.. and you can let it go.. you have to show them you care.. if it be give them a massage or cook for them once a week or do something sweet like make them a card from nothing or ask what his hobbies are and then ask if he would do them with you? something like this..
now i hope this helps.. if you need more help im just an email away..goodluck and let me know how it goes
2007-04-11 16:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing you are meeting these people in the wrong place a bar is no place to go for a relationship. When you meet people in the bar then you are to only expect for them to stay around for a little while. You might want to try going to church or to the park those people are more stable and maybe looking for a lasting relationship. If you meet a guy that you like and then he leave for no reason then you might call and ask him what happen. But if you wait on a person in the church then they will make for the best relationship because they will be willing to work and make the relationship work.
2007-04-11 16:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Dear Kerr berr
I would not look in a bar unless I was looking for a drunk or a loser. What are you looking for? I asked every one I know that I was looking for a nice girl. I tell every one what I am looking for. I was set up with one that was perfect for me by a person I meet one time. They knew some one looking like I was. WOW months on the Internet nothing. Look where losers are and that is what you well find. Easies thing is to ask them why they never called you back. I think God is looking after you. Find a nice guy not a loser. good luck
2007-04-11 16:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise is that you should stop meeting guys in the bar!!!!!! I know that I have never met the man of my dreams in one...... have you ever heard of someone living happily ever after....after meeting in a bar?????? Let a man know if you are interested, however, if they were still interested they would call you........ do you have sex with them within the first week?????? maybe that is all they were looking for.
2007-04-11 16:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by erin_foss8191@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your looking in the wrong places you need to find them at single clubs guys from the bars are only looking for a boody call and once they know you will not let them bang you they leave, and look for sex else were, try lifemates.com. or get in to sports any thing that dose have boo.s in the envirment.
2007-04-11 16:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They want you to begin with but once they get to know you they change their minds. Means you are too much work, too crazy and just not worth anything but sex. Once they get that it's not worth the effort anymore.
2007-04-11 16:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you act in the direction of them. Are you a woman who they actually appreciate or do you come returned off as being too undemanding. even nevertheless adult males say nevertheless love intercourse all the time, we only appreciate women persons with objectives and standards.
2016-10-28 11:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Take your time...it's not you; perhaps you are going to the wrong environments to meet people. Be friends first.
2007-04-11 16:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by np1 kenobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was also mad about this girl before, I got to date her and she had the worst bad breath ever so I disappeared.
2007-04-11 16:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a clinger, but you can always change.
2007-04-11 16:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by God's_gift_2_women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋