ok I like this guy and he doesnt like me i dont think but all of his friends and some of my friends says he likes me what im i to believe
2007-04-11 15:37:36 · 16 answers · asked by AMANDA S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said he doesn't like you. If you know this by him telling you this, go by what he said. Do not listen to what friends say.
Talk to the guy you like. Go straight to the source. Become friends with him and get to know him and see if you really like him or not and would like to get to know him more. You have to be friends first before you really have a relationship. Once you are friends, then maybe you can pursue a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
Personally, if a guy likes me, I would prefer a Man to be able to tell me and not to hear it from a friend of a friend, etc.....
I want a man to be able to communicate and be honest. If someone cannot tell me how they feel, that tells me that is not something I am looking for in someone. I have enough experience in my life that when someone cannot communicate directly to me, that the relationship, for me, does not work out. I want to hear something from that person, not from or through other people. When you hear things through other people, sometimes words gets switched around and to me that is not a manly thing when I want a manly man.
Honesty and Communication are important in every relationship and if that is already starting out shaky, it is not a very good sign for me.
My suggestion to you, is to start talking to him if you are interested in pursuing to get to know him further. If your gut instincts tell you something, listen to them. If your desire instincts are telling you something, that is another story. Your gut and your desire are two different ones.
What are the characteristics you are looking for in a guy? As you get to know someone, look at your list. Never be who you do not want to be or who you think they want you to be to make them happy. Being you is the best person who to be. Best wishes to you.
2007-04-11 15:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we could all tell you about a trillion different awnsers that we just came up with,
without even knowing you, the guy, his friends and the truth of the situation or you could really save your self the time of pondering over a question none of us really know and go ask him yourself.....
dang im good at giving advice if i do say so my self,lol...
2007-04-11 22:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by m V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play it cool. If he really likes you he will tell you. Don't believe other people, cuz they may be wrong. If worse comes to worse try talking to the guy u like, ask him whatsup. just be straight forward, Good luck!!
2007-04-11 22:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW what a runon sentence....Your first statement was that he doesn't like you...well how do you know that? Did he tell you that himself? Because the ONLY way you will really know is if you find out from him himself.
2007-04-11 22:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by eternaldarkclouds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if his friends say that he likes you i would believe them, but if you don't i would hang out with him as friends first.
2007-04-11 22:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by ~*hollister*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him and get to know him a little bit nd then ask him
if he likes you
2007-04-11 22:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by ivette o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try to talk to him........? If it was me i would just talk to him. maybe he thinks that you dont like him so maybe that's why he doesn't talk to you. If you talk to him maybe he will see that you are interested in him. Once he sees that you are interested maybe he will confess that he likes you
2007-04-11 22:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by Tynesha M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his friends are saying he likes you ...... he has had to say something
2007-04-11 22:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by wonderboy n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beleieve ur friends they r probably right
2007-04-11 22:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Alyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always listen to your instincts.
2007-04-11 22:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♫love♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋