I would like to get a census of military men that cheat when they are on TDY or deployment. please include if you paid for sex or not. This is an absolutely serious question.
2007-04-11 13:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by redheadedalaskan 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
i know the numbers are high for unfaithful women also, which i believe to be equally dispicable. I am a married military wife of 5 years, but discovered my husband cheatred on me two months before we were married on tdy in thailand. not at war but living it up in bangkok with a per diem. I want to know how many service members take their representation of our country in the world seriously. I love the military, i respect it and i am not blaming anyone for a typically wonderful mans hideously stupid decision.
2007-04-11 14:05:09 · update #1
You probably don't want to know the real answer to this.
2007-04-11 14:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by jim h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been TDY alot. Like 20 times a year for six years. Not very often. Not with me or the guys I was working with. I've been to some pretty sexually charged places, and still not even 5% of the time one of the guys would cheat.
2007-04-11 20:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by eodbobo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
of course no manis going to come forward..chances are his wife knows or uses yahoo too!!
but be serious men do cheat and so do women!! i think now a days its probably more wife/girlfriends who cheat while husband/boyfriends on deployment.
my husbands unit is has a lot of young men..like 18-21...some married some engaged others most have steady girlfriend...i know quite a few have cheated..more than i ever thought ...
my husbands father cheated on his mother while living up life in japan
2007-04-11 21:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by khymelove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know many men who cheat on Temporary Deployment. My boyfriend hasn't cheated on me when he is gone and i don't think he will anytime soon because my last bf cheated on me and he knows how much it hurt me. Being a military girlfriend is hard, and so is TDY but i always get through it.
2007-04-11 20:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by isublondie0125 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh cheat that way LOL I thought you meant cheat on my TDY travel voucher LOL LOL ha. Nah I have never cheated on TDY deployment etc. I had some one cheat on me before and it sucks! Guys that cheat are assholes and pieces of ****. ....... Shadow Stalker
2007-04-11 21:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by srtfugitiverecoveryagency 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot more than will admit. The saying, "what goes TDY, stays TDY." means exactly that. Not many will come back and admit to it. By the way, it is not just the men.
2007-04-11 20:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by mcgrawm7 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
In my 15 years in the Navy, I NEVER cheated on a girlfriend or on my wife...
In fact during a 6 month deployment it was my wife who was cheating... and quickly became my EX-wife.
I knew of ONE guy who cheated... and he got caught.
2007-04-11 21:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by mariner31 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you add to this question how many wifes cheat while there husbands are on TDY..? cause I think you would be shocked when it came down to the real answer...
But I am sure they both are high up there in numbers...
2007-04-11 20:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
I never did. To the best of my knowledge not too many of us did.
2007-04-11 20:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Wraith53089 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will guess a lot of them.If my husband was in the military and send to war I will give him a free pass then it comes to cheating.I can't imagine him fighting for his life with his balls hurting ....Boys deserve to get laid after a bloody fight
2007-04-11 20:59:34 · answer #10 · answered by RX 5 · 2⤊ 7⤋