so.. dis really hot guy dat i liked asked me out, and i said yes. so.. ive been pretty happy, but we still haven't done anything yet. its really boring,like, seriously. we havent even hugged ur anything. i dont even know his fone #. I think hes really shy, but i dunno. isnt it da guy thats supposed to make da first move ur sumthin? should I? but im sorta shy too, and so. i dont know how, like, what is sumthin goes wrong? help please?? advice?? lol thanks.
~Lucy xD
2007-04-11 13:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by lucy xD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He must be just taking things slowly and he might be thinking what if i do something and she react. So do one thing during conversation one day try to hold his hand and look out for his reaction and go from there one step at a time. Spartan
2007-04-11 13:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes u too much that he is too shy with u r maybe he feels the relationship is not working with u, i guess what u could do is know him better, have more discussions, normally is the girl that makes the first move, if u want to hug him, do so if u think he's ur bf, if u want to kiss, lean ur head to him about 90% from his head and he'll know what to do....
2007-04-11 20:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by JMCG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, somebody has to make the first move. If u know the he likes u and he is to shy hey,go for it but dont make u self desperate.
2007-04-11 20:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucy
i am knowing where you are coming from! i had a b/f like that a few months ago and i was like if this donn't get better i am abt to end it, but i relized thsat you can't just force it to come, you have to let it come! so what if you make a first move....you got it over w/! just take the plung and maybe it won't be so freakin boring!
Love connector!
2007-04-11 20:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kylah O'Neal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is obviously shy i dont think he doesnt like you. next time you are in a casual conversation with him and other people just ease in "oh btw wats ur mob number?" then when u have it txt him and ask him wat hes doin on the weekend and say ur goin 2 da movies and u wud really like him 2 come!
Ask ME
2007-04-11 20:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for his phone number, just reach out and hug him, and if you want to take it a little further kiss him. If something goes wrong, remember that there's other guys.
2007-04-11 21:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL very cute .Its kinda romantic but if u want to change it up be alittle aggressive take his hand when you guys walk and then when its time for good bye give him a hug.
Sometimes we have to make them comfortable since often they scared we think they want only one thing.
Good Luck
2007-04-12 18:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTICE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy might be too shy to make a move. Maybe you should, if you really are interested in him.
2007-04-11 20:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by gododjgjodjod 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he's not into it like you want him to be don't go out with him. like you said your dating him anyway. just trust me... personal experience. don't sit for months on this and say how stupid this whole relationship is. i did that and i regret every second of it!!!! hope it helps!!! Megan~
2007-04-11 20:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by magendazzler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel so if he won't make the first move then you make it. give him your # first. talk to him and get to know him. then he won't be as shy and he will make his move.
2007-04-11 20:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by ♥~Taylor Anne~♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋