Ok so there is this kid in my class who smells really bad! He sweats a ton, and is really gross sry but its true. He runs his hand through his hair, then smells it. He also smells his arm pits! I am really desgusted,, because of all the wierd things he does. I don't wan't to be mean, but he always pokes me, and has a crush on me. How can I get rid of him? (PS he also is mean, and flicks me off) HE SMELLS SOOOOOOO BAD! AND IS SOOO GROSS! HELP ME!
2007-04-11 11:44:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
well if you want to be mean you could say something like: ew i dont want someone touching me who smells like they havent taken a bath in years..freak looser, you could never have a chance with ME!
idiot...
hahahahaha i know its mean but if its the only way.......
2007-04-11 12:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by rinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....seriously he must be having a tough time with relationships. Go to your guidance counselor and tell them about it, and if he pokes you again tell him to stop. Don't say anything about his smell and bad habits though, because he's probably trying to deal with that too, and if his self-esteem gets any lower there might be another columbine. But mostly see him as an Ok person (well try) and treat him nicely, but if he goes too far do something. Try to indicate that u're not interested but perhaps becoming his friend would be a good idea. (u never know) Ok I know I'm sounding WAY too goody goody right now, but give him a chance, and if he ruins that chance, then you can confront him.
2007-04-11 11:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by mikezcim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your teacher, after class not being rude. My friend did that, and she called his house and had a talk with him about hygiene because she thought the same thing. If that does not work, you tryed to be nice so tell it to his face. Buy him some really good deoderant, and give it too him with a bow. On the tag tell him about his stank. Flick him off back. About the crush thing.... Get a boyfriend so your not available, fat, clueless, obnoxious boys don't think it's hot when you are not available. If he's not self confident, I promise he'll give up!!!
2007-04-11 12:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As others have suggested, inform the school counselor or a trusted teacher. They will be able to discretely take care of the problem. You may want to ask to be moved to another seat if you have assigned seating (along with an explanation of why you want to be moved) or just seat yourself far away from the offensive odor. Good luck and try hard to be understanding.....it almost sounds as if he needs counseling for an underlying problem.
2007-04-11 12:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bamassee B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honesty is best. However sometimes if you let things go its better. You have to be a judge of when you've had enough. I'd suggest talking to a parent about how you feel.
If that doesnt work just tell him you're soooo incrediably not interested. And if he touches you and you dont want him to you need to tell him not to touch you. I dont ever believe a guy has the right to touch a female ever if you dont welcome it.
I recently told a guy i worked with for a while now to keep his hands off of me.
2007-04-11 12:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by warm_champaign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of things, he must not have a very good home life...if he did, his parents would be making him bathe more often.
To help you, and to help HIM, you should bring this up with your school counselor. Let the counselor know that you don't want to have to face the kid directly about the problem, but that you also don't want to be touched by him anymore, and that you think he needs help with is personal hygiene.
2007-04-11 11:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, why ought to he inform you he loved you? He only talked to for a couple of minutes! except he became stalking you, how ought to he comprehend you nicely sufficient to 'love' you? Secondly, why ought to he renounce in case you confirmed no interest (it really is what it regarded favor to me). I propose, you probably did not tell him you loved him, you instructed him you've been seeing someone (for sure in case you've been fascinated sufficient to be with him you need to've lied.), and also you probably did not call him lower back. What professor is that stupid no longer to comprehend that he will no longer be with you. yet my question is : How a lot do you adore your boyfriend? because once you've been with him 8 years i'd wager you adore him plenty, and it doesn't be a query if yet another guy got here into the photo; you need to stay such as your guy. once you've doubts because of three words that some random professor said perchance you want to ascertain into your relationship. i'm fourteen by using the way. :) To me the answer is glaring what you need to do. call the guy and tell him no longer to stop his interest, drop his classification, and move on such as your existence. ordinary as that, hun.
2016-11-23 12:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI.
Ive found that in life you get people like that all the time. They usualy grow out of it.
Some people are just like it and you just have to learn to accept it, even though its disgusting. He wont b in ur class forever, maybe one day hel grow out of it, i know this sounds silly but hes most probly be doing it for atention- cos it is working as it has got to u so dont look at him or give him the time of day.
Just say to yourself atleast im not like that.
xoxoxox
2007-04-11 11:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even though you don't want to be mean, you can try telling him nicely that u don't have a crush on him and to stop poking you cause you really don't feel comfortable about that...that's all I can think of.
2007-04-13 00:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help him having a crush on you but you can prevent him from touching you. Ask him to stop and if he won't listen report his actions to a teacher, school nurse, etc. Also try to stay away from him as much as possible.
2007-04-11 12:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has a crush on you, you should say that you like guys that shower and smell good, and also ones that are quiet, polite, and don't bug you. If he likes you enough, maybe he'll change! =p
2007-04-11 12:00:00 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ Jeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋