I have met this guy online and we have very sensual conversations over the phone. This has been going on now for the last couple of months. Well last night when we were having a romantic coversation and he said, "Baby I love you", but do you think he is really in love with me or was just over excited?
2007-04-11 09:58:42 · 19 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls are quick to say "i love you" but most men are not like that....they seem to struggle for words when it comes to expressing their true feelings. It takes so much for them to say those 3 little words...so in most likelihood, your guy does love you coz it couldn't have come out of him unless he really meant it. If it's just the excitement of the moment, he could have easily said "Baby, you rock me" or "You're soooo totally cool, Baby."
Cheers!
2007-04-12 08:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How the heck would anyone here know that? Ask him! That said, I can think of a lot better places to meet a guy than online. You are totally unable to see his body language, demeanor, and other important visual clues that can tip you off regarding this guy's sincerity. You need to take extra precautions with this person. You talk of romance and sensuality here. What about values? What about future goals? What about work and family and political outlooks? What about all the things that make his person a person, compatible with you or not, and not just a sex toy? Make sure you are asking this guy the right questions and confirming the answers. That doesn't mean he is not the real deal, but you need to make CERTAIN you know what you are getting into before you go any further. No one here is going to be able to do that for you.
All that said, I met my wife online. We have been happily married for seven years. But it was an accident. Neither of us was looking for a date. We were just chatting about travel and found out we had similar interests and values. Do the math. You'll find out that more people who were taken advantage of meeting people online than people who found the relationship of their dreams. BE CAREFUL.
Good luck!
2007-04-11 17:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. It does sound very good and all but be rational: would you really want a relationship with someone you know from the internet and conversations on the phone? Do you honestly believe that you can trust such a person enough? Do you really know enough about him?
In my opinion (and I strongly believe in this) you should definitely have met the guy in real life, get to know him for real. Internet and telephones are great covers, a perfect way to disguise yourself.
Think about it...
2007-04-11 17:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by nohandtohold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you met in person ? If not, I am guessing that you can't count on it to be true. Not that he isn't in love with the idea of being in love with you or that you do not have the potential but it would seem that love would be more than sensual conversation on the phone :)
2007-04-11 17:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by LNA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you even wonder if a stranger you're having cyber sex cares for you that you need some therapy. Men near climax care insanely for about two seconds then they really wish you would disappear into the woodwork and their poker buddies with show up with a keg of beer. Seriously if you're looking for love the Internet and romantic conversations are not going to cut it.
2007-04-11 17:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
normal case those done by mi type boys dont be silli this is happened in normal case plz concirned with ur best frnd mostly boy i think only boy understand other boy behavior in ur Q u say that sensual convesation over the phone this is good fr u give urself some time and after then give him output
in phone give hem time to express his emotion and think little from ur mind and also heart this is serious matter to u plz understand and point out his mistake or habit this is good way to know some one if u think he is urs type boy then u definetly ya
but give some time to take it matturity and after some time u find out ur answer ur own
be happi dont take tnsion enjoy it and atleast this is main part of your life
i know u know the answer but cnt accept it dont worri god will help u
2007-04-11 17:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by papseddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just over excited. If you only have phone conversations, he doesn't really know you completely. He may love you but not be in love with you
2007-04-11 17:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
excited. way excited. if he was being very sensual from the get go, he has had one thing on his mind the whole time. it is true, he can like you for your personality too, but the fact that it was like that from the beginning denotes that he is in fact, horny.
2007-04-11 17:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just over excited fo sho'.
Loving somone without ever spending time with them? Not likely. Sorry.
2007-04-11 17:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Raymond W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i think he likes u. or why would u have a romantic conversation?
2007-04-11 17:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋