but i've called her everyday since then and everytime i do...it seems that she is always doing something, or cant talk. And one of her friends told me today that she is talking to about 4 other guys, but cant decide wich one to date. what should i do. She is two years older than me.
2007-04-11 09:57:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you want to date her or do you want a relationship? Sometimes 2 people meet, the timing is right, both of their heads are right, the stars are in alliegnment and they can leap into a relationship and it works out fine. Typically when this occurs, both parties are anxious and excited to hear from the other and often they sit on pins and needles waiting on a call. There ain't this stuff where they are "busy" or "can't talk." Typically the other interested party isn't trying to decide between you and a multitude of other opportunities.
The bottom line with love in relationships is that when BOTH people are in love.... love is easy and you don't have to second guess what the other person's intentions are.
If you are interested in a relationship, quit calling her. If she calls you and you like her, then keep it short, ask her out and get off the phone. Don't swoon over her and go out and have a good time and see where that leads.
If you are just interested in dating her then date. Dating is a test drive and you should do a lot of them before you land in a relationship anyway. Why aren't you trying to decide between 4 or 5 girls? If you want to date then put together some other options outside of this one girl. QUIT calling her EVERY day. Call her occasionally and ask her out if you want. And when I say "occasionally" I mean like call her the first time in a week then wait for two if she puts you off. Three strikes and she's out, move on. If she can go, great, go have a good time. If she can't? Call one of your other girls and go have a good time with one of them.
2007-04-11 10:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by c_crum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can say that you met her, but do you know in fact that she is considering on meeting another guy? If not then you need to find out some information from whoever said it for sure. Don't believe it right off the bat, until you have prove those are her plans. Just because one of her friends told you that does not mean that she is right, Her age should not be considered as it seems not to be the reason she has not talked to you. When you find out this rumor then you can go from there, Maybe she played you and tricked you into thinking that she liked you, but she should have just left you alone if that is the case.
2007-04-11 10:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so cute! Friday night will be the perfect time to call her, u will not seem desperate or like u don't care...as for the date...just throw the question out and she will tell you when it will be okay for u two to go on a date... It might be too soon in my opinion, I know that guy's hate the phone convos but u have to learn how to crawl before walk....or maybe ask her if u could go see her at her house. The best of luck to u!
2016-04-01 09:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that since she's so busy, you'll let her contact you when she has the time. Then leave it at that...if she wants to hear from you, she'll make the effort.
Nothing wrong with her checking out other guys as well, but there's no reason you should be putting forth all the effort here...she can dial a phone as easily as you can.
2007-04-11 10:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? you only met her at the weekend. She's got your number so leave it for now. If she does call you you can then decide if you want to see her again but I'd just go out and have fun if I was you. Don't wait around for her and don't keep on calling her.
2007-04-11 10:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by L-KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
A) If she doesn't have time for you, maybe she's not interested.
B) Do you really want to date someone who is dating 4 other guys? Who knows what's lurking down south.
Save yourself a ton of grief and move on. There are TONS of chicks out there.
2007-04-11 10:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by A.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to not put yourself in a position where you are waiting for her.At least move on for now and find someone your own age ( unless you are 37 or something)
2007-04-11 10:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were interested she'd make the time to see you or even call. Leave her be for a while and if she is interested she'll call and if not, forget about her.
2007-04-11 10:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by dennis c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it , you got up to bat which is more than a lot of guys get. but you struck out, don't waste anymore time stop calling go fishing the pond holds a lot of fish
2007-04-11 10:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by fredrucker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have done your part. Stop pursuing. Let her step up. Give her a chance to think about you and call you before you do.
2007-04-11 10:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋