And yet treat women who love them with utter contempt! And then are suprised when these women leave them?
2007-04-11 09:56:22 · 20 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys think the grass is greener on the other side.. They enjoy the chase, as its an adrenaline rush, but when they have you 'game over'!..Men consider themselves the hunters, and when theyv got them its boring and they want what they cant have. I guess its human nature, women are like this too. Its ony when you have gone they realised how much they had taken u for granted.
2007-04-11 10:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by jayna b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that 1st of all and not all women are like this either. Some men have been hurt and thats all they know is to be with someone who is going to hurt them. Most women do the same thing. Their choic is to be with a guy who treats them like crap and hardly ever go for the good guy. Most guys are just the same. They have been hurt so much that to date a good girl would seem wrong and they think well eventually she is going to hurt me too. And then for some their self esteem is just so looooooooooowwwwwww that it doesn't even bother them. And some men and women just don't think that a good person would even want to date them.
2007-04-11 17:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like women that are fun and hassle free, they get scared of emotional commitment which is why they choose the women that appear not to be too interested in them - if that woman suddenly went all soppy on them they'd run a mile!
2007-04-12 03:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer the first question men do fall madly in love and they do give them the time of day. If they don't, then they didn't fall deeply at all.
Not all treat them badly.
2007-04-11 17:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by goodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally these kind of men go for woman who looks good. And if they fail their relationships, they blaming on the woman and they said the woman treat him badly, the fact that they after the woman for the look only not the attitude or who loves them back do not matter to them.
2007-04-11 17:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. It is because they want something that they can't have or a challenge to get. Another explination is that he may not see you as anything more than just a friend. This question can really work both ways. There are just as many cold women as there are cold men.
2007-04-11 17:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fall for the wrong women all the time, but you can't help who you fall for when you're single. If I had a woman for loved me then I would just fall for her more every day. Its not always about the chase just depends on what you're looking for.
2007-04-11 17:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by david2131uk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i find that too, ya no y it is, cos they love themselves that much it duz their heads in when a gal aint that bothered, all men are up themselves these daze, they think they rule the fkin world, lets break it to them gently ah bless
2007-04-11 17:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it's the hard to get emotion. they like the chase. it's like girls going for the bad boys and ditching the good guys.
2007-04-11 17:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some men always seem to want what they cant have, and dont want what they have got.
2007-04-11 16:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋